They may very well be connected to your childhood surgical procedure, but have you ever questioned why these fantasies involve women rather than men?
Oh please...
1. They originaly involved me as the victim.
2. Im a guy and Im not gay, so of course they involve women.
3. What do you say to the women with the same fantasies? :
That is the wise approach. Sometimes, wanting to be close to the opposite sex and not being able to leads to resentment or hatered. We all want so badly to have a mate to be close to and we can get bitter when we don't achieve this.
It's pretty natural.
They may be misogynyistic towards women who do not fit their ideals but they might otherwise love and accept women who fit the traditional submissive gender type.
Well that's not misogyny then. It has to be globalized to the entire gender.
BTW, I have to point out that I in no way, shape, or form implied that all men or even the majority of men are rapists. Common sense dictates that this is simply not possibe and that's enough for me to believe that the majority of men are decent human beings. I would not excuse a woman for hating men just because she herself has suffered sexual or physical abuse by the hands of men. I would be understanding and supportive but I would not encourage this negative/irrational belief.
You have a rational and refreshing perspective. I wish all women were like you....literaly. :
I've known enough girls and women (and one guy) who have been beaten, raped or harrassed by men. I can tell you that none of them are living their life being fearful or hateful towards men.
Do they have an anxiety disorder? See, if I were entirely sane (although IM not crazy) I wouldn't have a problem. Moralizing is impertinent.