i feel hated on here

[systemanic]

I would say it's just the SA/paranoia talking. But facing these feelings, and sticking to this site, could be an excellent learning curve for you!

I'm only new, but i go on here for self-development primarily, and as such i don't really care what others on here think (as long as i don't feel hated, maybe). The social/people side is just an "extra". I'm not deliberatly looking for social/acceptance/etc, and am certainly not "demanding" it. Whatever happens, happens. Going with the natural/spontaneous flow of life. But i'm of an "older" age, and maybe have gotten over all/most of the hangups/irrationalities/etc i had with people. And also i've gotten used to being alone & independent, so i don't really rely on anyone for anything .. which means i don't easily get "offended" or hurt by feeling that i'm being ignored/disliked/etc. If i DO happen to feel such, then am able to quickly "move on" & forget about it (water off duck's back)

I would suggest you (& others prone to this train of thought) to tru accept the following:
--> Although it might SEEM to be (such-n-such) it doesn't mean it actually IS (such-n-such)
Ever heard of the phrase "Truth is stranger than fiction"?. This means that the truth can be harder to believe than fiction (the lies/generalisations/irrationalities we tell ourselves)

 

[Dronee]

Nobody ever responds to my posts/threads or takes me seriously either here.

Nah... don't say that... And hey I responded! Well.. to be truthful, I've the feeling people don't like me here, but that's just me... Sometimes the thread is just something that less people relate to I guess...

 

[Luke1993]

I knew you would say this,I am used to it,I have thought about it it too,too much butt kissing on this site,I doubt some people even have anything,if you arent in the butt kissing circle,no matter what you say, its going to be less likely to be answered...leave if you dont like this,it aint gonna change........

Circle? Who's in this circle?

 

[anxiety1408]

I love you I think everyone is awesome on this forum you know, People sometimes don;t reply because they haven't experienced what you have or they are experiencing the same thing and don't know themselves how to cope with it. And People are very understanding here as they all suffer from a phobia and they'll only try to help you, Hope you stay with us

 

[CosmicNeurotica]

Don't worry man, a lot of us here feel the same way.
We can start our own clique. The left out of the left out.
I hope I can be a part of your group.

 

[fitftw]

I don't feel hated here, but I don't feel a sense of belonging either, which sucks because I have some serious issues that I just can't bring myself to open up about.

 

[arsenalwa]

I feel hated on everywhere. Got used to it to be honest

 

[mwas]

Hei Hei buddy, please just do not let yourself think crazy like that, just like Feathers is saying, no one is really personal when they are posting something...it is just their own interpretation of their understanding...our unconscious has our own way of protecting us by going out of control. but if you look well consciously, you would realise there is nothing bad you have done.

 

[Kato]

I feel hated on everywhere. Got used to it to be honest

That is how I torture myself.
My mind has been of little help to me in many regards. I get mislead by it all the time. I trust my instincts more.



Look at all these posts to this thread. Dude you got a lot of support here, not hate.

 

[vichyssoise]

I've never met you but I don't think you're hated.

 

[lunaticbinge]

I feel hated on everywhere. Got used to it to be honest

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