I can't talk around people

[Foxface]

I can do better talking to guys, with girls they take things differently, I guess, and it usually goes in faillure.

Most girls, I'm always paranoid that the next thing I say could set them off (especially if they are attractive looking, which is a strange coincidence), with guys, it's a lot easier to have conversation with.

I can have the exact same conversation with a guy, it'll go fine, where as the girl, ends up ignoring or blocking me.

I hardly ever have problems talking to guys. There is one girl that I have no problem talking to, and not worried to talk to her. She is my best friend from the UK.

 

[lonelyworm]

Exactly the same , Some days are better than others , Some not.

It get's a bit easier if you build the amount of talking you do over time, But,

I noticed that if i keep myself isolated for too long it rapidly gets worse and harder to talk when i do find myself in a situation when one would expect me to make conversion .

Kinda had enough of being like this myself , seems if it isnt one thing going wrong it's definitely something else making my life hard to get through.

I mean Jesus Christ all i want is a "normal" life , career , job , house , wife , kids etc . If i can never achieve that , then i got to ask myself why am i actually here?

 

[recluse]

Can us with this problem have a relationship/date? I can't see why a woman would want to spend time with me who can't think of anything to talk about.

 

[Foxface]

Can us with this problem have a relationship/date? I can't see why a woman would want to spend time with me who can't think of anything to talk about.

There is only one girl in this world, maybe two, that I can have a conversation with, a full conversation, without having to try and keep the conversation going, or being worried that the next thing I say won't make sense or set her off.

They are the only girls in the world that are compatible and understand me. My friend from the UK, totally understands me and we get along better then anyone I've ever met. She is about ym age, and really beautiful. I just wish she lived close to me.

Most girls these days are the same: bitchy, judgemental, rather party and get drunk all the time. It's worse in the US/Canada, I think. It's rare to meet someone who isn't. That's why the only type of girl who I am compatible with, is someone on this forums, or someone with Autism (Asperger's Syndrome). I've meet a girls with Asperger's Syndrome, but they aren't for me. Not compatable becuase of their personalities. It takes someone special to accept me. Someone, who understands and loves people for who they are (including those who are different), which is extrememly rare these days. She likes to help people, and cares for those she never met. She dosen't parry and get drunk all the time dosen't even drink alcohol.

I am lucky to find my friend from the UK. She is probably one in a billion, a rare gem. I wish there were more people like her.

 

[Hellhound]

I can talk with one person despite getting nervous, but I remain silent in groups. It's not so much the anxiety, but the fact that I think they do well without me interrupting.