Azael
Well-known member
Re: I can't stand when people say, "We should get together soon and catch up!"
You have every right to feel the way you do. She is the one to brought the subject up and failed to communicate her real intentions clearly. It's a complete failure on her part. A woefully inept display of social poise and etiquette.
Yeah, I mean, I fully admit that I am afraid of rejection and that I always feel like the person doesn't mean it and doesn't want to meet up with me anyway. So yes, I do fnd it hard to try and initiate things like this.
This same girl did this to me before. She texted me saying she was in the area and that we should meet up. I just said "yeah, definitely," and then she didn't take the initiative to say when and where we should meet up, so I just let it go. So this time when she said the same thing I figured that I would actually try to take the initiative myself and ask what she liked to do in her area and trying to suggest that we should meet up for lunch or dinner. So I do find it odd that she didn't respond to that. I mean, she is the one who initiated contact to begin with. She texted me. She started the game with me and IM'd me. I'm not saying that she's not busy. I certainly don't expect her to be sitting around twiddling her thumbs all day just waiting for me to make plans with her. I just feel that it is unnecessary to say, "we should meet up sometime" if you don't really mean it. There are plenty of other way to still be polite without making a false statement like this.
You have every right to feel the way you do. She is the one to brought the subject up and failed to communicate her real intentions clearly. It's a complete failure on her part. A woefully inept display of social poise and etiquette.