I am so lonely with no friends

Hi I'm jillian I'm 26 and married. I stay at home and I feel so so lonely. I been out of a job for a year. Im very shy and depressed, I feel so low about myself when i am around people. I feel like i don't matter and I'm not as good as them. I never really had any friends and I'm dying to have them, I'm only asking for one but that's even hard for me.

I was wondering if anyone on here wants to email back and forth or chat? So maybe we both will feel less lonely.
 

Ignace

Well-known member
There are people enough on here who would like to talk to you. :) I'm always open for contact, that goes for everyone on here btw. ;)
 
There are plenty of people here who would love to chat with you. There's a "chat" thing on the bottom right if you have not noticed it before... Btw, Welcome to the forums!
 

joyce

Well-known member
I don't mean to sound mean but why not talk and spend time with your wife alot of us here want a relationship such as yours just saying. If that doesn't work then talk to me I guess lol
 

Liam17

Well-known member
I don't mean to sound mean but why not talk and spend time with your wife alot of us here want a relationship such as yours just saying. If that doesn't work then talk to me I guess lol

Harsh but true :L
 

Smurfette

Well-known member
I don't mean to sound mean but why not talk and spend time with your wife alot of us here want a relationship such as yours just saying. If that doesn't work then talk to me I guess lol
I think what Jillian is saying is that she has a "husband" not a "wife" and he's probably at work all day. So, I don't think his boss would like her visiting him. I've been there too. I was layed off in the past. Not easy or fun. Talk to me if u want, Jill!
 

missjesss

Banned
feel free to private message me anytime I have few friends but bcoz they don't rlly understand my issues I still feel alone :-(
 

joyce

Well-known member
I think what Jillian is saying is that she has a "husband" not a "wife" and he's probably at work all day. So, I don't think his boss would like her visiting him. I've been there too. I was layed off in the past. Not easy or fun. Talk to me if u want, Jill!

Well if that's the case then yeah feel free to talk to me
 

Blinkers

Active member
Hi Jillian.

I could have written your post! And I'm sure many others here could relate.

I'd love to chat, feel free to drop me a line :)
 

Untamed88

Well-known member
I'm scared of chatting because I can't hold a conversation. There would be awkward silences and then I would say something retarded to fill the space. But I know how you feel. I don't have any friends either.
 
Yeah, it would be nice to have some people around who relly got how crazy it is and yet not just get all wrapped up in it. If you need a friend, drop a line anyone really!

I know what its like to be alone. I love my wife and she is an awesome friend. yet she does not really understand and besides, I would also just like a friend as well. Its nice to talk to a new face and someone who is just a friend.

anyways, drop a line (anyone) and we can talk!

Ray
 

alejandro84

Well-known member
Hi I'm jillian I'm 26 and married. I stay at home and I feel so so lonely. I been out of a job for a year. Im very shy and depressed, I feel so low about myself when i am around people. I feel like i don't matter and I'm not as good as them. I never really had any friends and I'm dying to have them, I'm only asking for one but that's even hard for me.

I was wondering if anyone on here wants to email back and forth or chat? So maybe we both will feel less lonely.

i know what it is like to be without a job everyone looking down on you thinking you're a scrounger etc i really wanted a job but i found it hard to put myself out there if you are really shy it is harder for them to succeed in job interviews etc i was lucky when i got my job and im glad ive hung on to it for the past 5 years and i dread ever going back on the dole again.
 
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