knowledgeofself
Well-known member
ok so I have this problem, whenever I start to like a girl I often become vocal about it, maybe I shouldn't? but sometimes I just can't help myself. the problem mainly is the fact that as soon as people know what person I like they immediately move in on that person and I lose out! its like they didn't even recognise them before I took an interest and as soon as I liked them all of a sudden everyone wants to know them and date them. it really gets on my nerves because i'm not an alpha type and I often inevitably lose out to another person who then goes on to date them. has anyone else experienced this? it keeps happening to me, and I keep losing out on chances with really nice girls. help!