Okay, many of you guys need some SERIOUS HELP. I thought I was having trouble with girls ( I can't hold relationships and mess up a lot ), but I think if some of you guys EVEN had my experiences you would feel oh so much better about your lives. So allow me to help you fix your problem. If you trust me and what I say, I gaurantee you this will work within six months. If you don't trust me then youre ****ed. It's that simple. 
Here's your problem...
1. You are anxious and it seeps from you like sweat. Girls hate that.
2. You have no social skills because you have no experience. Girls hate that.
3. You are utterly unattractive. ( I will explain more later ). Gilrs hate that.
4. You look and act like a weird creepy loser. Girls hate that.
GIRLS DON'T LIKE YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE REACTING TO YOUR ANXIETY! DO not take it personally, do not take it personally, do not take it personally. NONE OF THE WEIRD CREEPY PATHETIC SHIT YOU DO IN YOUR LIFE IS REALLY YOU BEING YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOU ARE FEELING SO GODDAMN ****ED UP. Think about it! People who feel upset act upset, and it's no wonder other people are bothered by them! They aren't being themselves.
Read that last bit over and over again until you believe it. Ok, so how can you fix your problem? Well you can't fix it ENTIRELY until you solve your social phobia. This is where I am at, I've hit a wall and can't do any better until my SA is gone. However, you can get to where I am in a year or two if not much sooner. You may have trouble keeping relationships ( I can't ), but you will **** some HOT chicks, have a few flings, and get some basic social skills.
STEP 1: LEARN HOW GIRLS THINK.
Girls are not looking for nice guys or assholes or any of that. They want romantic feelings and intimate experiences, aka relationships, even if short-term flings. If a man can give a woman that, and if he has the ABSOLUTELY RANDOM PERSONALITY QUIRCKS (yes YOU HAVE THEM) that ONLY SHE likes, she will **** HIM AND BE WITH HIM. But you see, they are not looking to unleash their cum into someone ( like we are ), they ALMOST NEVER get horny until they like a man FIRST. You must MAKE THEM GET TURNED ON FOR YOU AS A MAN in order to make them WANT TO BE WITH YOU. Here's how you do it.
STEP 2: ACT ATTRACTIVE. ( actually, pretend to be attractive ).
To be an attractive man, you must, I REPEAT, absolutely must...
1. ACT CONFIDENT.
2. ACT ASSERTIVE.
3. ACT WITH SELF-RESPECT.
4. ACT DOMINANT.
You have none of these qualities because SOCIAL PHOBIA MAKES US ALL PATHETIC. I suffer too, I know. But you can ****ing fake it. Im proof. The more you act like you have attractive qualities the more you will fool women, the more they will **** YOU, and the more you will really have these things.
Here are examples.
1. ACT CONFIDENT.
* At a bar, noticing a girl who glanced at you and breifly made friendly eye contact, you WALK OVER TO HER*
You: Hi there, I'm such and such.
Girl: Hi, I'm so and so.
You: Ask her simple questions, chit chat.
Girl: Taking aimlessly about herself for a while.
You: * Pull out phone* Hey, that's cool. We should hang out, what's your numer?
Girl: Sure that'd be fun. *Gives you number*.
You: Cool, bla bla bla bla *chit chat a bit more*. Hey it was fun talking to you, we'll hang out. Bye.
Girl: Bye.
HER PUSSY IS AS GOOD AS YOURS AND IF SHE SAYS NO YOU BE THE GENTLEMAN AND WALK AWAY. THAT IS CONFIDENCE. YOU DONT GIVE A ****. It doesn't matter what happens because you are just acting anyway.
2. ACT ASSERTIVE.
Girls do what you want them to do when you want them to do it. If they have a problem with it, they are welcome to complain. You listen, and make a decision if this acceptable to you. Your will comes first, then hers. However, don't do something that violates the social rules or norms, just assert your will OVER hers unless she indicates that she REALLY doesn't agree. Here's a real world example from my life: A girl I met at a club was driving me home, we parked outside and the following conversation took place...
Me: Hey you should come inside.
Girl: I don't know, it's kind of late, what if your mom gets mad.
Me: Ha ha it's no biggy, come on, she won't because she's asleep.
Girl: I don't know.....I mean....
Me: Just come on.
Girl: Okay.
She came in and we hung out. She did what I wanted when I wanted because I was ASSERTIVE of my WILL. If she didn't like it she could **** off. However be careful not to be a rapist. A firm NO allways means NO.
3. ACT WITH SELF-RESPECT.
You must act like you are a valuable person no matter what kind of a piece of shit you think you are. You have to try and trick her into thinking you are worth something. A real life example will help you understand. After hanging out with a girl four times and getting no pussy, I had to pull the plug. We sat down and talked...
Me: We should talk. I don't think this is working out. I want to be more than just friends.
Her: Well I think we should just be friends, I'm sorry for stringing you along.
Me: I understand, but I don't wan't you to call me again until you decide to be more than just friends.
Her: Okay.
Me: Well it was fun hanging out, see you around.
See, I didn't take her shit and she felt it hard. She called me back two weeks later to come over her place and we had sex, because I respected myself.
4. ACT DOMINANT.
Girls need you to put them in their place; the subordinate position. They don't like men that act like bitches and cannot take charge ( THAT'S YOU ). BE....IN....CONTROL.
Example: You and a girl are hanging out watching a movie in her room. You, NOTICING THAT SHE IS BREATHING HARD AND TURNED ON, look over at her and smile, then lean in and kiss her. You slowly push her to the bed and keep testing her defenses. As she gets more excited you take off all her clothes ( dont be a pussy, go for it! ) and then you **** her, etc. DOMINATE HER. Then be sure to cuddle her after, haha.
STEP 3: LEARN SOME BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS.
Get yourself a HOT female acquaintance and HAVE her tell you about how girls think, how dating works, and so on. You can use the sister of a friend, a family member, or even read internet forums where hot chics post about love, if you have to. Supposing you get a real girl, after each of your experiences trying to get girls, talk to her and ask her to point out your mistakes. I did this and it improved my game 1000%. I will allways be indebted to her. Also, if you can use successful men to help clue you in on your game.
Now you may think this doesn't work, but I gaurantee you that the problem is in your attitude, lack of social skills, and your inability to hide your anxiety. You can do much much better if only you are willing to try. Currently Ive had sex of some sort with 15 girls in the last 5 years, and hooked up with another 15 that didn't lead to sex. If it weren't for my paranoia I would have had a true girlfriend, but even as it is I had one technically for a few weeks, and a couple flings as well. If you are not at my stage of recovery you can be. PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT THE GOAL IS TO BE YOURSELF AROUND GIRLS EVENTUALLY, AND STILL HAVE THEM LIKE YOU, BUT UNTIL YOU LEARN HOW TO ACT YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO DO THAT. FIRST GET YOUR GAME UP, THEN LEARN TO RELAX AS YOU GET OVER YOUR ANXIETY BY JUST BEING YOURSELF AROUND GIRLS. YOUR GAME WILL BE INTERNAL AT THIS POINT LIKE NORMAL MEN. Remember, its only an act because your social phobia is ****ing you in the ass. As soon as it diminishes your game will feel more naturally YOU!
I sincerely hope this helps, & please let me know how your progress is coming.
Here's your problem...
1. You are anxious and it seeps from you like sweat. Girls hate that.
2. You have no social skills because you have no experience. Girls hate that.
3. You are utterly unattractive. ( I will explain more later ). Gilrs hate that.
4. You look and act like a weird creepy loser. Girls hate that.
GIRLS DON'T LIKE YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE REACTING TO YOUR ANXIETY! DO not take it personally, do not take it personally, do not take it personally. NONE OF THE WEIRD CREEPY PATHETIC SHIT YOU DO IN YOUR LIFE IS REALLY YOU BEING YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOU ARE FEELING SO GODDAMN ****ED UP. Think about it! People who feel upset act upset, and it's no wonder other people are bothered by them! They aren't being themselves.
Read that last bit over and over again until you believe it. Ok, so how can you fix your problem? Well you can't fix it ENTIRELY until you solve your social phobia. This is where I am at, I've hit a wall and can't do any better until my SA is gone. However, you can get to where I am in a year or two if not much sooner. You may have trouble keeping relationships ( I can't ), but you will **** some HOT chicks, have a few flings, and get some basic social skills.
STEP 1: LEARN HOW GIRLS THINK.
Girls are not looking for nice guys or assholes or any of that. They want romantic feelings and intimate experiences, aka relationships, even if short-term flings. If a man can give a woman that, and if he has the ABSOLUTELY RANDOM PERSONALITY QUIRCKS (yes YOU HAVE THEM) that ONLY SHE likes, she will **** HIM AND BE WITH HIM. But you see, they are not looking to unleash their cum into someone ( like we are ), they ALMOST NEVER get horny until they like a man FIRST. You must MAKE THEM GET TURNED ON FOR YOU AS A MAN in order to make them WANT TO BE WITH YOU. Here's how you do it.
STEP 2: ACT ATTRACTIVE. ( actually, pretend to be attractive ).
To be an attractive man, you must, I REPEAT, absolutely must...
1. ACT CONFIDENT.
2. ACT ASSERTIVE.
3. ACT WITH SELF-RESPECT.
4. ACT DOMINANT.
You have none of these qualities because SOCIAL PHOBIA MAKES US ALL PATHETIC. I suffer too, I know. But you can ****ing fake it. Im proof. The more you act like you have attractive qualities the more you will fool women, the more they will **** YOU, and the more you will really have these things.
Here are examples.
1. ACT CONFIDENT.
* At a bar, noticing a girl who glanced at you and breifly made friendly eye contact, you WALK OVER TO HER*
You: Hi there, I'm such and such.
Girl: Hi, I'm so and so.
You: Ask her simple questions, chit chat.
Girl: Taking aimlessly about herself for a while.
You: * Pull out phone* Hey, that's cool. We should hang out, what's your numer?
Girl: Sure that'd be fun. *Gives you number*.
You: Cool, bla bla bla bla *chit chat a bit more*. Hey it was fun talking to you, we'll hang out. Bye.
Girl: Bye.
HER PUSSY IS AS GOOD AS YOURS AND IF SHE SAYS NO YOU BE THE GENTLEMAN AND WALK AWAY. THAT IS CONFIDENCE. YOU DONT GIVE A ****. It doesn't matter what happens because you are just acting anyway.
2. ACT ASSERTIVE.
Girls do what you want them to do when you want them to do it. If they have a problem with it, they are welcome to complain. You listen, and make a decision if this acceptable to you. Your will comes first, then hers. However, don't do something that violates the social rules or norms, just assert your will OVER hers unless she indicates that she REALLY doesn't agree. Here's a real world example from my life: A girl I met at a club was driving me home, we parked outside and the following conversation took place...
Me: Hey you should come inside.
Girl: I don't know, it's kind of late, what if your mom gets mad.
Me: Ha ha it's no biggy, come on, she won't because she's asleep.
Girl: I don't know.....I mean....
Me: Just come on.
Girl: Okay.
She came in and we hung out. She did what I wanted when I wanted because I was ASSERTIVE of my WILL. If she didn't like it she could **** off. However be careful not to be a rapist. A firm NO allways means NO.
3. ACT WITH SELF-RESPECT.
You must act like you are a valuable person no matter what kind of a piece of shit you think you are. You have to try and trick her into thinking you are worth something. A real life example will help you understand. After hanging out with a girl four times and getting no pussy, I had to pull the plug. We sat down and talked...
Me: We should talk. I don't think this is working out. I want to be more than just friends.
Her: Well I think we should just be friends, I'm sorry for stringing you along.
Me: I understand, but I don't wan't you to call me again until you decide to be more than just friends.
Her: Okay.
Me: Well it was fun hanging out, see you around.
See, I didn't take her shit and she felt it hard. She called me back two weeks later to come over her place and we had sex, because I respected myself.
4. ACT DOMINANT.
Girls need you to put them in their place; the subordinate position. They don't like men that act like bitches and cannot take charge ( THAT'S YOU ). BE....IN....CONTROL.
Example: You and a girl are hanging out watching a movie in her room. You, NOTICING THAT SHE IS BREATHING HARD AND TURNED ON, look over at her and smile, then lean in and kiss her. You slowly push her to the bed and keep testing her defenses. As she gets more excited you take off all her clothes ( dont be a pussy, go for it! ) and then you **** her, etc. DOMINATE HER. Then be sure to cuddle her after, haha.
STEP 3: LEARN SOME BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS.
Get yourself a HOT female acquaintance and HAVE her tell you about how girls think, how dating works, and so on. You can use the sister of a friend, a family member, or even read internet forums where hot chics post about love, if you have to. Supposing you get a real girl, after each of your experiences trying to get girls, talk to her and ask her to point out your mistakes. I did this and it improved my game 1000%. I will allways be indebted to her. Also, if you can use successful men to help clue you in on your game.
Now you may think this doesn't work, but I gaurantee you that the problem is in your attitude, lack of social skills, and your inability to hide your anxiety. You can do much much better if only you are willing to try. Currently Ive had sex of some sort with 15 girls in the last 5 years, and hooked up with another 15 that didn't lead to sex. If it weren't for my paranoia I would have had a true girlfriend, but even as it is I had one technically for a few weeks, and a couple flings as well. If you are not at my stage of recovery you can be. PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT THE GOAL IS TO BE YOURSELF AROUND GIRLS EVENTUALLY, AND STILL HAVE THEM LIKE YOU, BUT UNTIL YOU LEARN HOW TO ACT YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO DO THAT. FIRST GET YOUR GAME UP, THEN LEARN TO RELAX AS YOU GET OVER YOUR ANXIETY BY JUST BEING YOURSELF AROUND GIRLS. YOUR GAME WILL BE INTERNAL AT THIS POINT LIKE NORMAL MEN. Remember, its only an act because your social phobia is ****ing you in the ass. As soon as it diminishes your game will feel more naturally YOU!
I sincerely hope this helps, & please let me know how your progress is coming.
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