How Tall Are You?

dxp

Member
It's propably because i'm ugly(although I don't think I'm that bad) but girls always look away from me, or ignore me. I'm also about 50 pounds overweight.


However I do notice all kinds of girls and women talk about my height and check me out when my back is turned. So I assume this means it's my face thats turning them off. I must not look that great to girls.
 

Eam

Well-known member
I'm also about 50 pounds overweight.

Well the opposite isn't fantastic. I'm 6'2 and thin, and it attracts verbal abuse now and then.

For you other tall guys with SA, have you ever felt it a disadvantage? It makes you stand out and therefore people look at you.
 
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Eam

Well-known member
True. I'm not 7'2'', but still tower over most people. I guess I feel as if there's really no chance of going incognito. I stick out everywhere I go, and when that fact is so beside social anxiety to begin with, things can become delicate. Not to say that everyone is watching me, no, but it can feel that way in my head.

Ah, I should really read the thread before posting. Apologies!

Yes, I feel the same. Not to mention I hit most of my height early on. When you just wanna 'fit in'. I felt it had an impact on my self confidence and SA, definitely.
 
I am only 4'11" For a long time it really negatively affected me but as I get older I am learning to be more comfortable with my height and I am trying to not let it hold me back as much
 

imashy1

Member
I'm 5 ft and want to be taller! My jeans always drag the ground(even petites), and I can't reach things on high shelves.

Other than that it's okay I guess.
 
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