I don't deal with it well. Mainly because no matter how sick I am I still have to do everything by myself. I still have to go grocery shopping & cook, & clean & take care of the cats & feed the cats & do things for my mom. Even when my moms health was much better, she still didn't help me with anything when I was sick. I had surgery once & as soon as I got home, I had to start doing things, even though I could barely move & was in immense pain, all because I had no help. I take care of my mom all the time, but my mom won't help me with a thing, ever.
One good thing about it is that I have more of an excuse to not go to things like appointments & stuff.