killertubbie
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How do you guys feels about it and how do you react afterward? What goes throught your mind during that moment and a few minutes later?
I don't know if it is the right place to open such thread but I've always suspected myself having minor social anxiety. I'm not sure about the source and think it's due to the fact that I'm becoming more and more sensitive to stranger's glares. In crowded places, when I'm conversing with someone, I have the habit of looking around to see if there's anyone staring or glaring at me and felt like I'm being judged!
It's really not easy living as a person who is not physically gifted. When I got glared by men, I'm very annoyed and when it comes from women, it hurts a bit and I feel like I just committed a crime by staring subtly at them. It gaves me the message that only an handsome man can stare at me.
It also happens when they're in my sight, I can see how tense their facial muscles are, it gaves me the impression that they're disgusted by my presence without the glare. There might be a lot of mistinterpretations from my perspective, but I know I'm pretty sure how to read many of those facial expressions.
I'm aware that attractive women gets a lot of attentions from tons of men a day,it's probably annoying and creeps the **** out of them. I can partly understand this situation and I'm trying to use this as an excuse to console myself that I'm not alone feeling this.
Don't get me wrong, there's only a handful of people that glares at me in my daily life, not everyday, but it still sucks when it happens. You're wondering why the hell this person is glaring at you?!!? Any good reasons?!! Geez!
I believe there are people who are simply 'uglyist' (We should invent this new word) like racist or sexist people. Instead of picking on the race or the gender, there are people out there who mistreat others simply because they don't find these people attractive. I think it's one of the worst taboo of all and we don't talk much about it...
Anyways, sorry for the length, I'm a newbie in this forum and I probably need to express myself in here because it's liberating and when I read some of your threads, I can relate my life to most of yours.
I know it's not the greatest thread to read, I'm not that skillful but without being selfish, thanks to those who reads this and I'm open to any criticisms.
Just sharing my bizarre state of mind!
I don't know if it is the right place to open such thread but I've always suspected myself having minor social anxiety. I'm not sure about the source and think it's due to the fact that I'm becoming more and more sensitive to stranger's glares. In crowded places, when I'm conversing with someone, I have the habit of looking around to see if there's anyone staring or glaring at me and felt like I'm being judged!
It's really not easy living as a person who is not physically gifted. When I got glared by men, I'm very annoyed and when it comes from women, it hurts a bit and I feel like I just committed a crime by staring subtly at them. It gaves me the message that only an handsome man can stare at me.
It also happens when they're in my sight, I can see how tense their facial muscles are, it gaves me the impression that they're disgusted by my presence without the glare. There might be a lot of mistinterpretations from my perspective, but I know I'm pretty sure how to read many of those facial expressions.
I'm aware that attractive women gets a lot of attentions from tons of men a day,it's probably annoying and creeps the **** out of them. I can partly understand this situation and I'm trying to use this as an excuse to console myself that I'm not alone feeling this.
Don't get me wrong, there's only a handful of people that glares at me in my daily life, not everyday, but it still sucks when it happens. You're wondering why the hell this person is glaring at you?!!? Any good reasons?!! Geez!
I believe there are people who are simply 'uglyist' (We should invent this new word) like racist or sexist people. Instead of picking on the race or the gender, there are people out there who mistreat others simply because they don't find these people attractive. I think it's one of the worst taboo of all and we don't talk much about it...
Anyways, sorry for the length, I'm a newbie in this forum and I probably need to express myself in here because it's liberating and when I read some of your threads, I can relate my life to most of yours.
I know it's not the greatest thread to read, I'm not that skillful but without being selfish, thanks to those who reads this and I'm open to any criticisms.
Just sharing my bizarre state of mind!