HOW close did a relationship get before SA ruined it
- Thread starter juju
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I've been in actual relationships but because of my own doubt in myself and the person I'm with, thinking I'm not good enough for him maybe, that he likes my friend more and just general anxiety they always get tired of me pushing them away and accusing them of things they didn't do. Plus no guy likes to date a girl with no self confidence in herself.
EgoZero
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Yeah and girls EPSECIALLY like guys with no self-cinfindece...
I'd have no problem with a guy who felt the same way I did, I'd hope that we could help each other out together but how do two people with no self confidence get the confidence to date each other?? Hmm.
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I doubt that would make for a good relationship. It would probably be destined to fail from the get-go. You need to be sufficiently strong and happy independently of each other. If the people involved depend of each other in such ways, the relationship is unstable.
Perhaps people's quest for confidence clouds their judgment. They may not realize that confidence is carelessness in disguise, as far as the majority of the 'confident' part of humanity is concerned.
evil feline space cadet
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Ive let it ruin a possible relationship. I liked a guy, he liked me. He met up with me and my confident talkative 'friend' and now theyre together over 2 years- so ye can imagine how crap i feel!
also saved myself from the worst relationship ever after a month. This guy told me he loved me- straight away i panicked and knew somethin was wrong - especially cos he was acting weird ''cos he was afraid he was getting too attached''. Then when he wasnt looking i checked his texts.he was sleeping wit some1els
also saved myself from the worst relationship ever after a month. This guy told me he loved me- straight away i panicked and knew somethin was wrong - especially cos he was acting weird ''cos he was afraid he was getting too attached''. Then when he wasnt looking i checked his texts.he was sleeping wit some1els
My husband was the only man I felt comfortable telling about my stuttering, and he was the only man I have been with who would have accepted me...that's why I told him. After I told him that, and he told me something about himself he was ashamed of....we were able to move into the more personal, non-superficial stuff. I love him.
da_illest101
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lol tell me about it
i had a gf a few years ago, i broke up with her because i couldn't be myself around her, cause she told me she likes man with confidence, so after a week of being stressed out everyday i broke up.
btw @ krista, i love girls with liltle or no confidence, i find it really attractive, but they don't like me :
:white_wave
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lol, i think i used to attract bad guys, they act all sweet and understanding, then walk all over me.....
now i would'nt even want a relationship if i had the emotional energy to try to make it work.
EgoZero
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Getting drunk when going on date? The only way I can think of
Apparently for me, SA means no possibility for a relationship... I don't approach anyone, and they don't approach me. So my answer would be that relationships aren't even on the map.