Well, a neighbours' kid with Asperger's is really intelligent and language-wise way advanced over his years.. Plus, he talks almost like a TV show sometimes.. like a 'little professor' almost...
KJC, have you read anywhere a specific proof that iPod can't cause brain damage? I'd be very careful saying anything like that.. I know someone online who says there has been a 'short circuit' and she had some neurological/hearing-related issues from her iPod... (?)
I think cell-phones and computers and other sources of EM radiation can can be problematic for one's health too.. It may not be researched enough yet and some of it may be controversial, who knows what they will find in 10 or 100 years?
Sorry to hear they don't even let you wash clothes or dishes.. (on the other hand, 'I wish' ha ha..) I have a cousin whom his parents also consider, 'Oh he can't do it' and it's a crying shame cause he's bored a lot then, and he could do so much more than they let him..