Hello everyone
I have visited this site a year or two ago, but never joined up because after a quick browse of topics, I felt I was "worse" than everyone here. I never left the house, living with my parents and spent most of my time in my bedroom on the internet. I pretty much felt worthless, inferior and a lost cause. I would struggle with panic attacks just at the thought of having to go to the supermarket.
However Ive now come on a long way from where I was. I still have a lot of problems, but the level of anxiety I feel when confronting these problems is now low enough for me to actually have a go at things.
A quick run down would be that I find it extremely difficult to go to crowded/busy areas, such as towns, shops etc, I cant eat in front of people and I cant use the phone. Well, I say "cant" but, with the help of my psychologist I am tackling these fears with small steps. So, Im now feeling a bit more confident eating in front of close family, for example, or even having something like easy to eat, like soup, in a quiet cafe.
Ive also applied for college, which is something I would rather have died than even think about a year ago.
So there you go, thats a bit about why Im here.
It feels really good already, to have somewhere I can be honest about these problems, and not make up excuses or hide.
I hope to get to know you all
Tom
I have visited this site a year or two ago, but never joined up because after a quick browse of topics, I felt I was "worse" than everyone here. I never left the house, living with my parents and spent most of my time in my bedroom on the internet. I pretty much felt worthless, inferior and a lost cause. I would struggle with panic attacks just at the thought of having to go to the supermarket.
However Ive now come on a long way from where I was. I still have a lot of problems, but the level of anxiety I feel when confronting these problems is now low enough for me to actually have a go at things.
A quick run down would be that I find it extremely difficult to go to crowded/busy areas, such as towns, shops etc, I cant eat in front of people and I cant use the phone. Well, I say "cant" but, with the help of my psychologist I am tackling these fears with small steps. So, Im now feeling a bit more confident eating in front of close family, for example, or even having something like easy to eat, like soup, in a quiet cafe.
Ive also applied for college, which is something I would rather have died than even think about a year ago.
So there you go, thats a bit about why Im here.
It feels really good already, to have somewhere I can be honest about these problems, and not make up excuses or hide.
I hope to get to know you all
Tom