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[Marc7]

Hi i think im ugly

 

[jaim38]

Why do you think that? I think you look just fine. btw, looks are not everything. Other factors such as wits, sense of humor, and being nice counts too.

 

[WishingICould]

Ok? Well, i'm sure you're not. You might want to try smiling though.

 

[ImNotMyIllness]

As a straight man, you're a decent looking guy. In no way, should your appearance be hampering your social life unless you let it.
All of the SAs on this forum (almost all) have major issues with their appearance. Sometimes I call it the attractive person's disease. They refuse to believe that they're not ugly, regardless of how many times you tell them that they're good looking.

..Welcome to the club!

 

[dottie]

you are cute. deal with it.

 

[Marc7]

Why do you think that? I think you look just fine. btw, looks are not everything. Other factors such as wits, sense of humor, and being nice counts too.

what is wits?

no i don't i have acne

 

[Marc7]

Ok? Well, i'm sure you're not. You might want to try smiling though.

i can smile but i find me smiling as fake though

 

[Marc7]

you are cute. deal with it.

im cute?

what do you mean deal with it?

 

[WishingICould]

what is wits?

no i don't i have acne

wits plural of wit (Noun)
Noun
Mental sharpness and inventiveness; keen intelligence.
The intelligence required for normal activity; basic human intelligence.

Ever heard the phrase "keep your wits about you?"

 

[Marc7]

As a straight man, you're a decent looking guy. In no way, should your appearance be hampering your social life unless you let it.
All of the SAs on this forum (almost all) have major issues with their appearance. Sometimes I call it the attractive person's disease. They refuse to believe that they're not ugly, regardless of how many times you tell them that they're good looking.

..Welcome to the club!

can you explain the attractive person disease?

i didn't say it affects or hampers my social life, my social anxiety does and not feeling attractive doesn't help

 

[WishingICould]

can you explain the attractive person disease?

i didn't say it affects or hampers my social life, my social anxiety does and not feeling attractive doesn't help

Not feeling attractive is part of social anxiety.

 

[Marc7]

Not feeling attractive is part of social anxiety.

wits plural of wit (Noun)
Noun
Mental sharpness and inventiveness; keen intelligence.
The intelligence required for normal activity; basic human intelligence.

Ever heard the phrase "keep your wits about you?"

i didn' that was part of social anxiety, it thought i was part of self esteem. but look wise i geniuenly don't find myself attractive though

no i never hear that phrase before.

 

[WishingICould]

Lack of self esteem and social anxiety go hand in hand, i think. May i ask how old you are?

 

[Marc7]

Lack of self esteem and social anxiety go hand in hand, i think. May i ask how old you are?

um i really do look unattractive though with acne

im 19, wbu?

 

[WishingICould]

I'm 25.

 

[Marc7]

I'm 25.

if you don't mind why did you ask how old i am?

 

[WishingICould]

if you don't mind why did you ask how old i am?

I just wondered.

 

[jaim38]

what is wits?

no i don't i have acne

Wits is intelligence, smarts.

 

[Marc7]

I just wondered.

why did you wonder that?

 

[Marc7]

Wits is intelligence, smarts.

i know now someone else told me lol