MercySparx
Well-known member
I don't know how to deal with this. I'm not thinking clearly due to uncontrollable anger and frustrations:
Me
I'm srsly sick. The doctors are preparing me for the worst, and for a long road ahead. Nervous system disorders don't usually have an easy fix or happy ending. Peripheal nueropathy is usually just a symptom of a bigger problem.
The Boyfriend
**** dude. That's too much to handle at your age.
Me
I wasn't trying to just vent I was getting at something with my speel. I'm giving you an out. (7 hours later) Guess you can just get back to me on that one.
The Boyfriend
You realize I don't always read my messages, right? They're quasi-emails. So if I don't get to one and you bug me because I didn't reply fast enough, I'll just take longer because it pisses me off to be under a timeline. I'll reply when I can sit down and put some thought into it.
Me
Yes, I do realize. You don't have to be a contemptuous ******* about it.
You realize facebook is our only form of communication, right? When I'm forced to drop something heavy on you with this impersonal format, waiting 7 hours for a response leaves me with quite a bit of anxiety and frustration to deal with.
The Boyfriend
How? Who's being more contemptuous of the other, one that gets irked when they aren't attended to immediately, or the one that asks, albeit bluntly, for a degree of consideration when it comes to something as trivial as replying to a message on a social networking site? I am the cat that walks by himself, I will not come when called, and I am certainly nobody's dog when it comes to obeying commands. Misogyny and misandry go hand in hand.
Me
You know what? **** you. How about that?
The Boyfriend
Yeah, but the thing you don't realize is that I wake up to 50+ messages, missed calls, and texts on both phones, on top of studying for my math final and dealing with the bull**** line of work I volunteered myself for. So I apologize that I can't attend immediately, but I'll take that '**** you' under advisement.
Everyone's got their own fight, it's just a fact of life.
Me
You missed my scarface reference completely and all that doesn't justify the amount of dink you are being.
The Boyfriend
And you're a shining example of a human being? You're going through ****, yes, and I try to be there for you but every time I try to be there you act as if it's just a bootycall. Where's the respect? I can't seem to do right and I just get landed on when I make any attempt. Thanks mom, I'll just **** off and let you deal with it yourself if all I am in your eyes is a pig. 'hanging out' doesn't specify sex, it means hanging the **** out. I am aware of how much of a prick I'm being. You aren't aware of how much of a silly git you're being. But hey, your problems overshadow mine and I should just shut up and cater to you, right? I'm getting angrier and angrier the more I think about this.
Me
I have absolutely no idea what you are ****ing talking about
The Boyfriend
Apparently.
Me
Really? Thats your response? When someone tells you they don't know what you are ****ing talking about, that means that you ****ing elaborate and explain what you are ****ing talking about.
The Boyfriend
I'm leaving this until I cool down.
Me
Fine. I'll do my best and try not to bug you with my misandry and constant crys for attention.
The last message I sent was 24 hours ago
Me
I'm srsly sick. The doctors are preparing me for the worst, and for a long road ahead. Nervous system disorders don't usually have an easy fix or happy ending. Peripheal nueropathy is usually just a symptom of a bigger problem.
The Boyfriend
**** dude. That's too much to handle at your age.
Me
I wasn't trying to just vent I was getting at something with my speel. I'm giving you an out. (7 hours later) Guess you can just get back to me on that one.
The Boyfriend
You realize I don't always read my messages, right? They're quasi-emails. So if I don't get to one and you bug me because I didn't reply fast enough, I'll just take longer because it pisses me off to be under a timeline. I'll reply when I can sit down and put some thought into it.
Me
Yes, I do realize. You don't have to be a contemptuous ******* about it.
You realize facebook is our only form of communication, right? When I'm forced to drop something heavy on you with this impersonal format, waiting 7 hours for a response leaves me with quite a bit of anxiety and frustration to deal with.
The Boyfriend
How? Who's being more contemptuous of the other, one that gets irked when they aren't attended to immediately, or the one that asks, albeit bluntly, for a degree of consideration when it comes to something as trivial as replying to a message on a social networking site? I am the cat that walks by himself, I will not come when called, and I am certainly nobody's dog when it comes to obeying commands. Misogyny and misandry go hand in hand.
Me
You know what? **** you. How about that?
The Boyfriend
Yeah, but the thing you don't realize is that I wake up to 50+ messages, missed calls, and texts on both phones, on top of studying for my math final and dealing with the bull**** line of work I volunteered myself for. So I apologize that I can't attend immediately, but I'll take that '**** you' under advisement.
Everyone's got their own fight, it's just a fact of life.
Me
You missed my scarface reference completely and all that doesn't justify the amount of dink you are being.
The Boyfriend
And you're a shining example of a human being? You're going through ****, yes, and I try to be there for you but every time I try to be there you act as if it's just a bootycall. Where's the respect? I can't seem to do right and I just get landed on when I make any attempt. Thanks mom, I'll just **** off and let you deal with it yourself if all I am in your eyes is a pig. 'hanging out' doesn't specify sex, it means hanging the **** out. I am aware of how much of a prick I'm being. You aren't aware of how much of a silly git you're being. But hey, your problems overshadow mine and I should just shut up and cater to you, right? I'm getting angrier and angrier the more I think about this.
Me
I have absolutely no idea what you are ****ing talking about
The Boyfriend
Apparently.
Me
Really? Thats your response? When someone tells you they don't know what you are ****ing talking about, that means that you ****ing elaborate and explain what you are ****ing talking about.
The Boyfriend
I'm leaving this until I cool down.
Me
Fine. I'll do my best and try not to bug you with my misandry and constant crys for attention.
The last message I sent was 24 hours ago