Despite the mountain of evidence pointing to the contrary, I still feel that only cute/hot girls are worthy of my friendship.
As for men? I see two kinds of men, "guys who get girls" and "guys who don't get girls". I have tried to shake this belief for a while now but it is impossible.
I have no interest in being more than acquaintances with "guys who can't get girls". Then for "guys who get girls" I want their approval but I don't want to take the risk of becoming their friend because I feel intimidated that my lack of lady skills would be obvious, exposing my lack of masculinity.
Hence my desire to only want friendships with attractive women. They are like social currency.
As a result of this clearly fvcked up way of thinking, I have rejected every "inferior" guy's hang-out invite I have gotten since my social anxiety kicked in. It's obvious that I reject them because I don't want anybody to get close enough to see the real me. I hate the real me.
As a result I have no friends.
Anybody have a similar story they'd like to share?
As for men? I see two kinds of men, "guys who get girls" and "guys who don't get girls". I have tried to shake this belief for a while now but it is impossible.
I have no interest in being more than acquaintances with "guys who can't get girls". Then for "guys who get girls" I want their approval but I don't want to take the risk of becoming their friend because I feel intimidated that my lack of lady skills would be obvious, exposing my lack of masculinity.
Hence my desire to only want friendships with attractive women. They are like social currency.
As a result of this clearly fvcked up way of thinking, I have rejected every "inferior" guy's hang-out invite I have gotten since my social anxiety kicked in. It's obvious that I reject them because I don't want anybody to get close enough to see the real me. I hate the real me.
As a result I have no friends.
Anybody have a similar story they'd like to share?
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