Guys: Ask Us Girls!

[Havocan]

Are you also lactose intolerant, a Ba'al-worshiper, and a closet Michael Jackson fan? If so, please send me your resume and a $50 processing fee. I accept credit card and paypal, and maybe check depending on how desperate I am.

Right on . Do you accept $100 instead?

 

[mickeykick]

girls like strong men, and people like us are not considered strong but weak.. girls seems to not like people with social phobia and anxiety problems, they need a leader

 

[Havocan]

girls like strong men, and people like us are not considered strong but weak.. girls seems to not like people with social phobia and anxiety problems, they need a leader

Nay, for if you believe you're weak yourself then what will girls in general think of you? Everyone's got the opportunity to be strong and a leader, it just takes time and practice.

Beside it totally depends on the girl. Some might want a leader, some not, but in general it seems to me they want an independent bloke filled with ambitions^^.

 

[j_brown2]

No girl wants a man with social anxiety -TRUE, it's a big turn off. You got to be very lucky, some people have a strong social phobia some not, it depends... a girl will get sick and tired with a social phobic real quick... remember girls just wanna have fun lol

 

[Ajuna24]

Do women seem like a mystery to you? / Are you always wondering what we want?

No. I have enough experience with people to understand that most of them are just downright stupid. ...As in when women want you to read their minds.
I'm not wondering what you want because I know that most of the time it is just something that is either irrational or impossible (Not counting the need to feed and all that stuff, of course.)... of course there are times where the signifigant other will be content with having someone that loves and cares for them that they care for back, but thats rare unless you are not one of these people (And that goes for BOTH sexes!).


Are you baffled by our insistence to put the damn toilet seat down?

Yes, quite frankly I am. Is it such a big deal? It's not that I have a problem with it, I just don't understand it.


Or by how we ever managed to get a driver's license?

Not really. Alot of women are great drivers. Maybe not that good at parking in tight spaces though, but neither am I. ::


Can you not understand the point of Sex and the City and the E! channel?

No I can't! How the hell can someone watch that crap!? YES, I've watched a tiny bit here and there, so I know how bad Sex and the City is.
And now they're even gonna make another movie! Dear god.
I've not even heard of this "E!" your talking about, but I'm sure it sucks.

...

I wipe the seat and close the lid.

So do I! What is that!? It's like a weird habbit.

 

[TheDreamer]

Half kidding, half serious. What do you do when you're the 'perfect guy,' - but never end up being in a position to MEET woman!?? I honestly think I'm handsome, always nice and polite - great with kids... but obviously suffer from severe agoraphobia. I need to get a girl before I'm old! If any of you woman feel the same way lol, let me know. I'd love to find a girl with the same issues - because I feel like I'm at the breaking point with this crap and it's exactly what I need.

 

[Riiya]

Half kidding, half serious. What do you do when you're the 'perfect guy,' - but never end up being in a position to MEET woman!?? I honestly think I'm handsome, always nice and polite - great with kids... but obviously suffer from severe agoraphobia. I need to get a girl before I'm old! If any of you woman feel the same way lol, let me know. I'd love to find a girl with the same issues - because I feel like I'm at the breaking point with this crap and it's exactly what I need.

All about Internet Marriage

 

[Kamen]

If a girl or several girls claim they can represent all the other women and are ready to answer all sorts of questions for them, they point out predictability and patterns in this group of people and that all can actually be boiled down to principles, ways, techniques for interaction - call it as you like. They are ready to reveal them but at the same time are against this, as expressed in another similar topic, and label it as 'manipulative'.

 

[Riiya]

If a girl or several girls claim they can represent all the other women and are ready to answer all sorts of questions for them, they point out predictability and patterns in this group of people and that all can actually be boiled down to principles, ways, techniques for interaction - call it as you like. They are ready to reveal them but at the same time are against this, as expressed in another similar topic, and label it as 'manipulative'.

Whatever, dude. Chances are you missed the smirk on my face the whole time I was writing this.

 

[Kamen]

You see, people - human mind and the ways it tricks itself can be really interesting sometimes.

Riiya - so why didn't you unite your topic with SickJoke's into an wider topic?



P.S.:

the smirk on my face the whole time I was writing this.

Exactly. What I've seen remains for me. If I tell you why I think you are making this topic, you may feel attacked / offended. And I am not here for making conflicts.

 

[Wheeler]

I try to be respectful on a first date, then I don't get a second date. I just don't feel right being an animal putting my paws all over you and treating you like... well you know. where is the middle ground? How do I know when the time is right to do certain things? Can I make up for the things I do wrong?

 

[Kien]

Why are girls scary?

 

[Pliny]

Not sure if this was asked yet but, uh, do you girls like to be approached on the street? (I don't mean in a "GIVE ME YOUR WALLET" type way, I mean it in a "Hey, whats up" kind of way)

 

[Jake123]

Why can't boys be as easy to understand as girls?
(I'm a guy, but I like guys so yeah...)

 

[Satine]

Not sure if this was asked yet but, uh, do you girls like to be approached on the street? (I don't mean in a "GIVE ME YOUR WALLET" type way, I mean it in a "Hey, whats up" kind of way)

I'd say generally no. I've been approached a couple of times like this and it just puts me on guard. That said, these men have been strangers. Even if they're being friendly, there is the possibility they're playing a distraction game and trying to pickpocket me - there are 'friendly' tecniques for that.

If it's someone I already know, I'll be happy to start a conversation, so talking to a girl you already know in the street might be more beneficial.

That said, it's worth remembering that if she's in the street, she's probably on her way somewhere so isn't all that bothered for being stopped and having to chat for a while. Or maybe that's just me - I'm usually pretty single-minded when I'm on my way somewhere.

 

[klytus]

She'll be tactile with him, touching his arm a lot. At the end of a date she might put her arms around him and linger as the couple are meant to part. She might make a lot of eye contact. She might wear clothing that looks awfully easy to remove, or at least deliberately shows off her assets. She might do something a bit naughty with the stem of her wine glass or the straw in her drink. She might touch herself where she would like him to touch her (mind-gutter-out of! I meant her neck and face, where it's nice to be kissed). She'll look fascinated in what he says, and smile a lot.

Haha. This sounds entirely unknown. Apparently no one has ever shown interest in me. My experiences have almost exclusively been the opposite of that - most women tried to get away from me, basically. It's always been great to see them flock to the popular guys.

 

[Sinar_Matahari]

Do women seem like a mystery to you? Are you always wondering what we want? Are you baffled by our insistence to put the damn toilet seat down? Or by how we ever managed to get a driver's license? Can you not understand the point of Sex and the City and the E! channel?

If you answered yes to any of the above questions, this thread may help you! From our favorite colors to our favorite Grandma's recipes, this is the place where we tell everything like we have never before. Come, don't be afraid, and have an enlightenment of a lifetime! Managed by a diverse group of females from all over the world, this thread is guaranteed to give you a better understanding of women and turn you into the man we all crave for.

I can understand where you're coming from. Open communication is essential and power does come from knowledge. The male friends whom I grew up with are very good at getting women because they're used to women and don't make them into such complicated mysteries. The confidence does help too.

Do you have Social Anxiety? Women with social anxiety cannot expect men with SA to become or turn into the "man we all crave for" since we are more likely just as flawed as they are. In that case, should we not turn into different women in order to be the sort of woman that they crave? I guarantee that there are healthy men out there who would not want a woman with Social Anxiety or any other form of mood, personality or mental disorder. Also, not all women crave a specific male prototype. As women, we may all have things in common but that doesn't change the fact that we are very diverse at the same time.

Men here (as well as women) have self-esteem, confidence, fear and trust issues. Knowing a woman's favorite color, favorite recipe, knowing why we want the toilet seat down or watching Sex and the City is not going to provide them with the help they need in order to approach a woman, get a girlfriend, or be more attractive to the opposite gender. Learning general or sterotypical information about women is not going to help men. Not all women can relate to Sex and the City, not all women watch the E! Channel. It's important to know the individual person. For example: I love watching Sex and the City. I can relate to some of it and I can understand the kind of women being portrayed, but I should not be confused with any of those characters because I am an individual.

There are many changes that both us men and women have to make if we expect others to be drawn to us. If a person has serious issues, they have to deal with those before they go out looking for a significant other.

Again, I understand where you are coming from and I know that you mean well with this thread, and it's good that you're trying to take the mystery away from us. Keep in mind that some men like mystery in a woman. Judging from the first couple of replies, the guys don't seem to be taking this thread very seriously.

 

[Queen_Of_Pain]

Aproximately, on average, what is the combined lengths of all fallopian tubes?

omg xD why would you even want to know that?
actually I don't think I want to know lol

 

[Imhotep]

Actually, I have a question. And it's a sensible one.

I've been going out with a lady for a while and I kind of assume we're just friends. Nothing's been said explicitly between us on the subject. But the times we go out seem a bit "datey" to me. You know, restaurant, movies that kind of thing. Granted, I haven't got a lot of experience in this field, and I wonder whether she's expecting it to progress. I know I do. Is there any way of telling (short of actually discussing it with her, which will probably be embarrassing for both of us) what she's hoping to get from this? It seems odd to me (but then, I don't think in normal straight lines) that a single man and woman can go out as friends without there being something...else...between them.

Any thoughts?

 

[Sinar_Matahari]

Actually, I have a question. And it's a sensible one.

I've been going out with a lady for a while and I kind of assume we're just friends. Nothing's been said explicitly between us on the subject. But the times we go out seem a bit "datey" to me. You know, restaurant, movies that kind of thing. Granted, I haven't got a lot of experience in this field, and I wonder whether she's expecting it to progress. I know I do. Is there any way of telling (short of actually discussing it with her, which will probably be embarrassing for both of us) what she's hoping to get from this? It seems odd to me (but then, I don't think in normal straight lines) that a single man and woman can go out as friends without there being something...else...between them.

Any thoughts?

It is possible for men and women to go out and be just friends even if they're going out to the movies or to eat at a restaurant together. How did this relationship come to be? Did she ask you out? Do you guys go out during the day as well as in the evening? Does she talk to you about things one would normally tell a friend? It's possible that she just wants a friend to go out with or do you think that she might be romantically interested in you and is waiting for you to make the first move? Have you picked up any vibes at all that could give you a clue that she may be romantically interested?
The best way is to ask her. If you can't tell on your own then it's best to ask. You might never know otherwise.