girls... this is a question for you

[mmmm]

. They will deliberately ask questions because they want a reply. They will say "Don't you hate the heat?" instead of "I hate the heat".

Please learn to read before you make sweeping generalisations and judgments that can really make a person feel uncomfortable in the only place they can go to get acceptance and understanding.

 

[mint]

I think mmmm had a valid point, really.
There's a difference between general friendly questions like "How are you today?"
and pressuring questions asked only to provoke a certain response. People kind of put you on the spot with those.

I may be mistaken but some of the posts disagreeing with mmmm's post seemed a little mocking and hurtful and I think that as a group of people with SA we should all be a little more considerate to the sensitivity of others here. I'm sorry if I sound like I'm accusing anyone or if I'm wrong.

 

[Seasons]

I think mmmm had a valid point, really.
There's a difference between general friendly questions like "How are you today?"
and pressuring questions asked only to provoke a certain response. People kind of put you on the spot with those.

I may be mistaken but some of the posts disagreeing with mmmm's post seemed a little mocking and hurtful and I think that as a group of people with SA we should all be a little more considerate to the sensitivity of others here. I'm sorry if I sound like I'm accusing anyone or if I'm wrong.

Just to say that I disagreed with mmm, but didn't mean to be hurtful or to mock in any way and I am sorry if it sounded that way.

 

[Sial Axetder]

Some good advice here. Some okay advice here. Some not so well understood. Some leaving .

Can honestly say I think I am more clear on what is what. I always ask to any one "how about this weather?" or "How's life?" Poor conversationalists will do that?

Change can be done, says I.