So you're saying you never had a GF in your life?I think you make a great point, and Moses is skipping over this very obvious fact. By all accounts I am "white" and average looking, and obviously it is not a magic ticket for getting girls. They rarely ever approach me, and I can barely even make myself say hello. Online dating doesn't work, I mean I can get replies but it always leads nowhere.
White/latin/asian/indian/arab women prefer white males more than black males (That's alot of races favoring you guys). You guys have so many options over a black person. I know for a fact if a white SA'er from this forum embarked in the same journey as me going out for 5month trying to get a gf he would've succeeded within the first month. And to add more, he would've got a new girl each month at the least!! I truly hate these women.
So you're saying you never had a GF in your life?
Like you already know Bronson, I went out for 5 month (almost everyday) working my butt off to find a gf and never came back with at lease ONE.
What the hell kind of theory is that. If you mean i didnt get any GF because i went out to pickup girls then thats completely ridiculous and sounds like something taught in church. Girls don't read minds - they don't know what you're intentions are unless you tell them or give out ques. The girls i spoke to i didn't spend enough time with them for them to start noticing anything suspicious.Thats because you're going out trying to catch women like they're damn pokemon lol.
Show them respect? that's what i did before getting their number.Hating women is not the answer. As long as you show them respect, there will be a girl for you. Women tend not to have high standards or very particular taste, etc.
What the hell kind of theory is that. If you mean i didnt get any GF because i went out to pickup girls then thats completely ridiculous and sounds like something taught in church. Girls don't read minds - they don't know what you're intentions are unless you tell them or give out ques. The girls i spoke to i didn't spend enough time with them for them to start noticing anything suspicious.
Lets say you were right, if so that would men the same rule would apply to all men of looks. Meaning if i was a white male with outstanding looks i wouldn't have got any GFs because of the lame reason " i was trying to pickup chicks like pokemon".
I was joking with you. All joking aside I really dont know what advice to give. Im pretty new to dating myself and I dont know how most guys go about it. I was set up on dates through/by my friends and got a few from online. Ive not tried walking up and trying to start a conversation with a random woman I think are pretty because I figured that would freak them out, plus itd freak me out. Im just unsure if your method works. But if you know guys (in real life, not in book or the internet) who are successful using your method then by all means go ahead. Just keep at it and dont lose your grip.
What the hell kind of theory is that. If you mean i didnt get any GF because i went out to pickup girls then thats completely ridiculous and sounds like something taught in church. Girls don't read minds - they don't know what you're intentions are unless you tell them or give out ques. The girls i spoke to i didn't spend enough time with them for them to start noticing anything suspicious.
Lets say you were right, if so that would men the same rule would apply to all men of looks. Meaning if i was a white male with outstanding looks i wouldn't have got any GFs because of the lame reason " i was trying to pickup chicks like pokemon".
Social circle game can't work for everyone, and is not always required. Consider for example how so many folks travel, for whatever reason, and yet they're not going to settle just "being alone" because they don't have a social network to back them up, for instance. That's why you go out and talk to people.
Now you say it would freak you out but that is because you have SA. A lot of folks, women included, like to get attention as long as you're calibrated enough to come across well.