Feeling lonely again
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ThatOneGirl
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yesss i havent been outta the house almost at all in like 3 wks ehhh thats bad 4 a 16 yr old girl in summer n my mom makes me feel like a total loser 4 it prob not on purpose tho..i havent talked 2 ne1 in so long i was just on the phone w/ my grandma n my voice was all shaky 4rm bein nervous my frekkin grandma!! idk wats happenin 2 me, 4 real i feel SOOOO alone tho like if i dissappeared no1 would even notice.
Thelema
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ThatOneGirl said:
3 weeks isn't so bad. I went all winter once without going outside. During this time I didn't say anything to anybody for weeks on end, besides telling my mom what food to get me. When my friend called me I really almost forgot how to carry on a conversation. It was weird and made me feel like a freak. Don't let it get that bad. Before I dropped out of school I was a talkative person, when I wanted to be, but I'm almost 19 now and I'm still quiet and I know it was because of that time I spent alone
TAMPA-BAY said:
Yeah there is no understanding. I wouldn't want to be consoled anyway though.
Riptor said:
Yeah I know that feeling. I feel like I could become something so good but, I feel so sluggish when it comes to actually acting and doing something besides just dreaming
Thelema
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I feel like I want to dress in my best clothes, get in my car and just drive. Nowhere to go, just drive. I don't have a car or a license but I've been feeling this way lately.
I'm going to buy a custom dress shirt. I don't have any reason besides it will make me feel good. School is starting tuesday and hopefully I'll get a job too. Then I'll get a car and just drive, fast!
I'm going to buy a custom dress shirt. I don't have any reason besides it will make me feel good. School is starting tuesday and hopefully I'll get a job too. Then I'll get a car and just drive, fast!
loserinamailbox
Active member
Yes I feel that way right now. Very lonely. But I avoid interaction with anyone close to me, so I guess it's my own fault.
peaches22
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I know how you feel.. I used to love being the center of attention, and loved being around lots of ppl.. and meeting new ppl. But for the past couple of years I have been through so many bad things, like a lot of ppl. It just shuts me down... I find myself looking at ppl and thinking how I don't fit in, I'm not a good person. so on and so on. I used to also suffer from anxiety attacks. which was in result to the negative thinking.recluse said:
Aggie
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Hi All,
I'm lonely and isolated too because I have long term agoraphobia and anxiety.
I can't bear anyone coming to the house when I'm home alone so my isolation is made worse.
Yet I fear being alone at times when my anxiety is high.
It feels as if I'm the centre of attention should anyone call, I don't feel like this when my husband is home as he can take part in the ' entertaining' but it makes me feel very anxious and panicky when alone therefore I avoid all callers when alone, even family has this effect on me.
I'm lonely and isolated too because I have long term agoraphobia and anxiety.
I can't bear anyone coming to the house when I'm home alone so my isolation is made worse.
Yet I fear being alone at times when my anxiety is high.
It feels as if I'm the centre of attention should anyone call, I don't feel like this when my husband is home as he can take part in the ' entertaining' but it makes me feel very anxious and panicky when alone therefore I avoid all callers when alone, even family has this effect on me.
Argamemnon
Well-known member
Well said, that's what makes this illness so severejellybean said:vicious cycle
its a case of not wanting to be around people coz it takes so much out of me but then feeling demented with boredom because Im alone all the time!!!!!!!!!
yep, im lonely also. just sitting here trying to chat with whoever i can, but its different when your just talking to someone online instead of in real life.
i need some human interaction, even if we did absolutely nothing. at least id have some company while im doing nothing. or maybe we could play a board game together, like scrabble. that would be nice. or even rock paper scissors. i dont care what we do, just ANYTHING!
i need some human interaction, even if we did absolutely nothing. at least id have some company while im doing nothing. or maybe we could play a board game together, like scrabble. that would be nice. or even rock paper scissors. i dont care what we do, just ANYTHING!
Thelema
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emmdee said:
Thanks, Emmdee
I still struggle with loneliness, but even a few minutes of socializing can perk me up the whole day, so to speak.
I have the All Star bowling team and a couple of leagues I'm in to give me some socializing. I may only get 1 or two days a week where I'm around other people and thats plenty and theres a cute girl that just got on the All Star team :wink:
Bowling is good for anybody by the way. You don't need to know very much to join a league and theres usually one going all the time for kids from 6-21 and adult leagues.