Littlewilly
Well-known member
I know this will sound crazy but I have never had a girlfriend or been married or anything but I have fantasized that I have been over the last 30 years on people that I have had crushes on or people that I think might have been interested in getting to know me in the past. Yes im shy & was bullied at school & i remember being bullied by a girl not long after i started school.I think i have face allsorts of trauma in my life on & off.As for the above (FANTASIES) i think i fantasized over having a girl or wife because i felt safer that way because when it comes to reality i just don't get the confidence to make it happen.
Im considering going back to my therapy group or doc & telling them or him the truth that that is my problem is never having a girlfriend etc.
Do you or anyone think i should have some sought of Pschotherapy.
I take anything anyone might suggest because i think this has gone on long enough or maybe too long enough or its too late to do anything now or maybe i've worried about it far too much over the years & pushed it all away.
Im considering going back to my therapy group or doc & telling them or him the truth that that is my problem is never having a girlfriend etc.
Do you or anyone think i should have some sought of Pschotherapy.
I take anything anyone might suggest because i think this has gone on long enough or maybe too long enough or its too late to do anything now or maybe i've worried about it far too much over the years & pushed it all away.