*Amy*
Well-known member
Well obviously it's not quite that severe lol, but i've noticed that i become obsessed with any guy who pays me the slightest bit of attention I don't know if this has anything to do with social phobia, but i just wondered if anyone has the same problem. I'm not a stalker or anything, i just start to think about them a lot, because i can't believe any guy would want to talk to me
Hey Hanny! I have to say that I totally understand you. It used to be the same for me, I used to get interested in any guy who showed me the slightest bit of attention, who bothered to talk to me. I have not overcome it at all, but I'm getting better. I think it's a question of realising it and accepting it. What really helps is kowing lots of people, both male and female, so that you would get more in touch with guys and not fall for every one of them. But that's quite difficult if you, like me, suffer from SA.