Yes he is fine with everyone else i am the only woman he has a hard time with (and the others are very pretty women as well) i will say they are married, moms, and some are older than us..like a mom or grandma type..we work in a school, he's a janitor but everyone chats and gets along well!!!
He is never shy with any of them; easy, funny, jokester, etc. until he gets around me and he looks afraid..if i am stanidng close to him i can feel his breathing change and see the look of fright on his face!!!! And like i said the others are all taken..married with children BUT VERY ATTRACTIVE its just with me!!!!! Thats when everyone started saying HE'S VERY ATTRACTED TO YOU!!! You are his type!!!!!
i WILL ADMIT HE'S THE ONLY MAN I HAVE BEEN REALLY SHY WITH LIKE THIS..I am a shy gal, i admit, but not once i get to know someone.then i may still be quiet but i can definitly make friends and date
Just so you know, i am on these boards to have a better understanding of what he is going through. People at work have aways said he is VERY shy with gals..and possibly commitment phobic or social anxiety & fear of intimacy (people who have worked with him for 15 yrs) so thats why i looked it up and found the boards..i wanted to understand him better and try to help!!! I really care about him!!!!!!
I WAS FINE WHEN I FIRST MET HIM ACTUALLY, IT WAS HIS SHYNESS AND NERVOUSNESS THAT FRIGHTEHED ME. LOL!!! I noticed very early on (even before i liked him) that he couldn't look at me EVER was very uneasy and scared...he'd only look when i would look away!!! Or from across the room which he still does, its when i got close to him that he would get all scared & anxious. It just made it so hard for us to talk..his face would go blank even, like he forgot what he wsas saying or to keep breathing or something. He also use to look out the window or door before approaching me--it looked like he wanted to try and breathe slowly or calm himself down????? He did that several times in the beginning, quite possibly a panic attack????
Others have commented on it ALOT since we started working together EVEN BEFORE I STARTED BEING INTERESTED its anywhere from you BOTH look like love sick fools when you look at one another to...he watches you when you walk to...he still isn't comfortable with you H ELOOKS SO SCARED!!!!
I can definitly look at him in the eye I ALWAYS HAVE BEEN ABLE TO AND I CAN TALK TO HIM bu i am sure i give off nervous signals too but you have ti understand he is so uneasy that it makes me uneasy..its such a shame bcuz he still won't go away!!!! He tried all last week to get me to lok in his direction!!!! I feel for him, i really do!!!!!!!!!
Did you read the rest of my post from yesterday???? The new one i started with the updates??? That may help
I love your input by the way..your posts are AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!