does the dating world revolve around parties?

[no1]

or dances?

if one doesn't go to parties or dances (I dont dance) or a clubs, or bars, will be hard to find a date?

I mean.. now there's personals, but besides that. Wasn't that how it was done traditionally?

boys met girls at parties/dances/clubs/bars.

or at school (but not everyone goes to school). Or at parties, or group meetings of some sort. The very rare "at work" situation.

other than that, it's the random "cold approach" technique...

it seems so hard for me..

I guess I haven't been meeting enough people, I get the idea that women only want to find men at the clubs, or bars, or parties.

can't women be a little more flexible and open their doors in other situations?

 

[Nervous]

I guess I haven't been meeting enough people, I get the idea that women only want to find men at the clubs, or bars, or parties.

Whores only want to find men at the clubs, bars, and parties.

 

[meatcake]

I read recently that the traditional way to meet people for dating is through circles of friends that expand in middle and high school to include the opposite sex. So people have time to get to know each other before they start dating. Sounds nice.

 

[RND_CHR]

How many posts do you have on this website? Find something better to do with your time. Get a hobby and find a girl that likes to do it too. Make friends with her then **** her friends. I don't know. By the way, my parents met at a party.

 

[Perfidion]

No, the dating world doesn't necessarily revolve around parties. Fortunately. I've dated women I've met in places as varied as retail outlets, the library and the park. There's no hard and fast rule in regard to where you're supposed to meet a potential mate. It can happen anywhere, at any time. You just have to be open to it happening. Don't obsess about it, and try not to reek of desperation.

And don't post so many threads about sex. It's weird. And creepy. And kind of sad.

 

[Psychedelicious]

Out of the Kindness of My Heart

*sigh* -

 

[Ashiene]

women and men who go to parties to find 'partners' usually just want sex and nothing more.

 

[Noca]

I've had quite a few relationships and dates and I've NEVER gone to a party in my life.

 

[Ashiene]

i find the party atmosphere in nightclubs to be highly claustrophobic too.

 

[goofy]

I feel ya No1! I'm not much of a party goer myself. I met my fiance on match.com. I put an add out there, and let it sit. 6 months later she contacted me. We talked via email for a short time, then I called her and we talked for like 3 hours on the phone and I suggested we meet for coffee. 6 years later....the rest is history.

 

[Danfalc]

can't women be a little more flexible and open their doors in other situations?

Why do you assume women arnt flexable?Yes people who go to clubs and parties...often go to hook up,but some just go for a night out,it isnt the only place to hook up.

I know its hard when you have anxiety or depression,we often dont come into the same social circles as everyone else...but there is online dating like goofy said (btw its always nice to here of a happy ending like that goofy)...but yeah there are girls out there who dont hook up through parties and stuff,some stuff you cant just wait for it to come to you though you have to make an attempt to go out and get it if you really want it.