does anybody else get obsessive about people

lonelee1

lonelee1

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i get really obsessive over people im interested in. its so hard, i wish i could stop!! i hate the anxieties, i need a job, im just really frustrated and it kills me.
 
hardy

hardy

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me too..i used to get obsessive and kind of irritate them. Now, i avoid interesting people...:)....try to mind my own difficult life.
 
truffleshuffle

truffleshuffle

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I guess to some degree I can but I always feel creepy and try to maintain a bit of distance so not to spook the hell out of them.
 
A1621

A1621

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Well, depends on how you define obsessive. If you mean constantly thinking about them .. daydreaming about doing things together, etc .. I think that's called falling for them. ;) Maybe it's something more .. like if it's someone you don't see as much as you'd like and you find yourself, I don't know .. trying to hold on so tight to every moment .. because you don't know how long it will last or how much time may pass before seeing each other again .. mmmm, maybe that could be considered obsessive. Don't know sure .. but, I fit into both of those. I hear ya.

Getting a job would help somewhat I guess .. having things to do that make you happy apart from your, "interest" certainly would crank it down a couple notches as you have other things to occupy your mind. But I know how it is though .. to become so fixated on someone sometimes. Wish I had a solid answer for you but unfortunately, I'm kinda searching for it myself. The human mind is incredible but .. it doesn't come with instructions. :p And the heart .. who can understand that even WITH instructions? ;)
 
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jaim38

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When I was little, I used to be obsessed with my best friend, but as I grew older, I grew more detached to people. I'm afraid to get too close to them.
 
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