Hey!
I thought it would be useful to hear others experiences how they told their friends and family that they suffer from Social Anxiety.
Firstly, I like to say that if you suffer from social anxiety in silence like I did for pretty much my entire teenage years, telling the people who are closest to you will be the best thing you will ever do. It makes it a hell of a lot easier to deal with if you have people fighting your corner.
For me, I had councelling for my social anxety at school when I was 15. I didn't tell any of my friends or family about it and had to hide the appointment cards that I was given as I found the disorder embarrassing and thought they wouldn't take me seriously. The councellor advised me that I should tell my parents. When I did, I expected them to laugh, however, they were understanding and agreed to support me through it. I then decided to let my close friends know how I felt. They did see it as a bit of a joke at first but after a while they grew more understanding. Having my friends and family on my side helped a lot, I stopped going to councelling as I didn't feel alone anymore.
However, I understand that some people do not have access to the help that I had which was why I thought it would be a good idea to hear of others experiences with less sympathetic parents/friends; how did they react, did your anxiety improve etc and what is the best way to tell your friends/family to ensure they take you seriously.
I thought it would be useful to hear others experiences how they told their friends and family that they suffer from Social Anxiety.
Firstly, I like to say that if you suffer from social anxiety in silence like I did for pretty much my entire teenage years, telling the people who are closest to you will be the best thing you will ever do. It makes it a hell of a lot easier to deal with if you have people fighting your corner.
For me, I had councelling for my social anxety at school when I was 15. I didn't tell any of my friends or family about it and had to hide the appointment cards that I was given as I found the disorder embarrassing and thought they wouldn't take me seriously. The councellor advised me that I should tell my parents. When I did, I expected them to laugh, however, they were understanding and agreed to support me through it. I then decided to let my close friends know how I felt. They did see it as a bit of a joke at first but after a while they grew more understanding. Having my friends and family on my side helped a lot, I stopped going to councelling as I didn't feel alone anymore.
However, I understand that some people do not have access to the help that I had which was why I thought it would be a good idea to hear of others experiences with less sympathetic parents/friends; how did they react, did your anxiety improve etc and what is the best way to tell your friends/family to ensure they take you seriously.
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