tooshytosay
Well-known member
It's not that I don't know what to say
It's not that I have nothing to say
It's just that, when I am brought upon to say something -
Suddenly, I don't know what to say
Suddenly, I have nothing to say
It might seem like a paradox, but that is the paradox of living with SA.
Really, it's killing me. I feel embarassed right off the face of this planet because of this.
I don't know why it happens. I don't know why my brain completely shuts down when I am called to speak. Suddenly, I am unable to speak coherently. I just start speaking this incomprehensive, inaudible mumbo-jumbo. Either that or I'm going "ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm" "errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr" for ages and ages trying to think of what to say.
If you thought writer's block was bad, it's nothing compared to this, what I call "speaker's block". At least when you are having writer's block you are by yourself - when you are having speaker's block you have this person looking at you waiting for you to say something. And whatever I try to "rush out" of my mouth under such conditions are such stupid things that are a far cry from what I really wanted to say.
If I were to describe what it feels like - normally, I'd be having this "TV" playing on inside my brain - my thoughts; but suddenly, when I'm required to speak, it's like someone pulled that plug out of that TV - everything that was there gets rushed out, and all I "see" becomes utter blankness, utter emptiness. I try to say something - but I just feel like banging my head against a wall - i.e., nothing comes into fruition.
I just hate it, I really, really do. It really turns me into a fool. I get embarassed, the person talking to me gets embarassed, everything turns awkward, and I just feel like I want to disappear - literally - from the face of this earth.
This happens too much for it to be bearable.
It's not that I have nothing to say
It's just that, when I am brought upon to say something -
Suddenly, I don't know what to say
Suddenly, I have nothing to say
It might seem like a paradox, but that is the paradox of living with SA.
Really, it's killing me. I feel embarassed right off the face of this planet because of this.
I don't know why it happens. I don't know why my brain completely shuts down when I am called to speak. Suddenly, I am unable to speak coherently. I just start speaking this incomprehensive, inaudible mumbo-jumbo. Either that or I'm going "ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm" "errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr" for ages and ages trying to think of what to say.
If you thought writer's block was bad, it's nothing compared to this, what I call "speaker's block". At least when you are having writer's block you are by yourself - when you are having speaker's block you have this person looking at you waiting for you to say something. And whatever I try to "rush out" of my mouth under such conditions are such stupid things that are a far cry from what I really wanted to say.
If I were to describe what it feels like - normally, I'd be having this "TV" playing on inside my brain - my thoughts; but suddenly, when I'm required to speak, it's like someone pulled that plug out of that TV - everything that was there gets rushed out, and all I "see" becomes utter blankness, utter emptiness. I try to say something - but I just feel like banging my head against a wall - i.e., nothing comes into fruition.
I just hate it, I really, really do. It really turns me into a fool. I get embarassed, the person talking to me gets embarassed, everything turns awkward, and I just feel like I want to disappear - literally - from the face of this earth.
This happens too much for it to be bearable.