rafael_josem
New member
Hi,
When im in a group of people i usally stay with my mouth shut and not because im afraid of talking, it just that i dont know what to say, my mind just fills in blank.
For example, let's say we are 5 people and they're talking about women. Tipically, i wont say word and i would just listen. I really want to speak but my mind get stucked and i dont know what to say. But if somebody says: "well, women are this and this", inside of my head i woukd say :
"How didnt i come with that?".
Also im very very bad establishing a conversation and keeping it, but very good at ending it 8). I use too many one-word answers, but again, i dont know what to say after that.
Also, sometimes it happens that in a group of people we are talking about a topic that i really know about, in the moment i cant think of something to say, but after that i just get plenty of ideas i could have used back then. It really sucks...
I'd appreciate if you guys have some tips to overcome this.
My solution until now has been reading books on various topics.
What do you think? what else can i do?
When im in a group of people i usally stay with my mouth shut and not because im afraid of talking, it just that i dont know what to say, my mind just fills in blank.
For example, let's say we are 5 people and they're talking about women. Tipically, i wont say word and i would just listen. I really want to speak but my mind get stucked and i dont know what to say. But if somebody says: "well, women are this and this", inside of my head i woukd say :
"How didnt i come with that?".
Also im very very bad establishing a conversation and keeping it, but very good at ending it 8). I use too many one-word answers, but again, i dont know what to say after that.
Also, sometimes it happens that in a group of people we are talking about a topic that i really know about, in the moment i cant think of something to say, but after that i just get plenty of ideas i could have used back then. It really sucks...
I'd appreciate if you guys have some tips to overcome this.
My solution until now has been reading books on various topics.
What do you think? what else can i do?