lilmutegirl
Well-known member
I know a lot of people on here say they don't have friends, but if you consider yourself to be part of a group, do you often feel like the "odd man out"? I do. I went to a football game yesterday with 9 other people. I'm pretty close to one of the girls and my bf, and knew the other girls and their husbands, so I was pretty comfortable. My bf and I really don't drink, and I had one beer (which took me almost the entire game to finish) and the only other one not drinking was the pregnant DD.
Though it didn't really happen this time (only one of the guys made a slightly vague comment), I've noticed that I tend to be seen as the uptight, serious one of the group--for two reasons: 1) not drinking, and 2) being quiet and not crazy obnoxious (which I tend to do when I drink, but then I vomit profusely the next day, hence, the not drinking often or much). It used to make me feel like a buzzkill, but I've kind of accepted it. I don't usually have a lot of fun when there's much alcohol involved, but at least I don't have to recover like everyone else.
Now that I have my bf to hang out with, I don't feel so pressured to do stuff like this too...and I feel like we're all getting too old for it anyway (in our 30s).
Anybody else feel like this?
Though it didn't really happen this time (only one of the guys made a slightly vague comment), I've noticed that I tend to be seen as the uptight, serious one of the group--for two reasons: 1) not drinking, and 2) being quiet and not crazy obnoxious (which I tend to do when I drink, but then I vomit profusely the next day, hence, the not drinking often or much). It used to make me feel like a buzzkill, but I've kind of accepted it. I don't usually have a lot of fun when there's much alcohol involved, but at least I don't have to recover like everyone else.
Now that I have my bf to hang out with, I don't feel so pressured to do stuff like this too...and I feel like we're all getting too old for it anyway (in our 30s).
Anybody else feel like this?