Hey DtLive,
There's a stickie in the OCD sub-forum and another recent thread, yeah google search works better than many forum searches, sometimes you need a minimum of 4 lettersor such to search on some forums
Here's another thread:
http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/body-dysmorphic-disorder-28406/ I was quite surprised to hear several quite goodlooking people on this site have had it too!!
(Tip: the more goodlooking the person, the worse the BDD, I think!!)
There's a cool book I found on amazon about it too, haven't read it, just used the 'look inside' feature and it was very helpful! It was recommended on another forum I think, or a similar book was, there are several about BDD
I recently came across something called 'reversed bdd' (you can Google it, hehe) - first I thought people were joking about it, but apparently some people might really have it?
They look into a mirror and think they're gorgeous, even if they wouldn't be by 'official standards'?!
Then again, who is the one who sets standards, and why are they the right person for the job? Worth to think about it, no?
I wish I had your zest for exercise, hehe!! I have been blessed with quick metabolism, so I'm kinda skinny (okay, not in all parts hehe) but exercising is great for fitness and to be toned yup.. there are tons of people who look good despite not exercising though.. Or some are not considered 'attractive' by official standards, but they have FUN in life anyway (sometimes they might have 'reversed BDD'?
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I never measured the bodyfat except if absolutely necessary (in school or something) Do you have equipment yourself or how do you do it? (And why?
Some people just decide to not weigh themselves anymore, ya know..)
It sounds like 'body perfectionism', a bit - I've had moral/ethical perfectionism so I can relate a bit.. It's like you think other people won't accept you 'imperfect', but usually other people are far less critical than one's own immediate family or oneself... (unless you're a go go dancer in a bar/supermodel/up-n-coming pop/RNB sensation or something like that?)
Do you live in an area that is very 'superficial' (like Hollywood or such?) Where I live, only some cities and venues are more 'superficial' like that.. Most normal people really don't care how you look as long as you're kinda enthusiastic/interesting and fun to be with, or make'em feel good, or are a good listener, have sense of humor etc.