Oh well. Nobody to help me with going out so maybe I should try a different way - go out on my own and not even bother to try to ask people what the best places are. No pressure, no going in at the deep end, no "you MUST get drunk, do what we do, stay out for hours and pay for a taxi home."
I thought that maybe I could start off just trying to have a quick drink in a bar, then try to stay there a bit longer and start to talk to people, then possibly even move onto nightclubs. I make it sound so simple ::
So for a start, do bars tend to open in the daytime at all, and when are they quietest? Do you need to dress up much if it's not exceptionally classy? I suppose you don't look daft if you pop in for a quick drink and then go? What about non-alcoholic drinks - I asked here before and apparently things like tonic water and lime would be good? I would have coke but I'd feel such a dollop going to a bar and ordering that, do they even sell it (shows how much I know)? If they're not busy with something else will the staff usually be happy to suggest something? Enough questions? Thanks for anything
I thought that maybe I could start off just trying to have a quick drink in a bar, then try to stay there a bit longer and start to talk to people, then possibly even move onto nightclubs. I make it sound so simple ::
So for a start, do bars tend to open in the daytime at all, and when are they quietest? Do you need to dress up much if it's not exceptionally classy? I suppose you don't look daft if you pop in for a quick drink and then go? What about non-alcoholic drinks - I asked here before and apparently things like tonic water and lime would be good? I would have coke but I'd feel such a dollop going to a bar and ordering that, do they even sell it (shows how much I know)? If they're not busy with something else will the staff usually be happy to suggest something? Enough questions? Thanks for anything