Argentum
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I wonder if this is a side effect of being in a bad place in life? Like sharks picking up on blood in the water.
It seems as though most of the people I attract have bad intentions or trouble seeing other people as people. Sometimes they're people who are often angry at me for minor things. Sometimes (if men) they're extremely pushy about physical boundaries. Sometimes there are threats if I don't behave the way they want. Sometimes they talk about their problems as much as possible but never listen to me. I thought I'd made a genuine friend recently, but they confessed that they see other people as akin to hollow dolls who interact with them on a superficial level.
What do I have to do to be worth someone who cares for me as a person and doesn't want to extract something from me? I try to be caring towards the people in my life and not take too much or come across as cold, though it's a struggle sometimes.
It seems as though most of the people I attract have bad intentions or trouble seeing other people as people. Sometimes they're people who are often angry at me for minor things. Sometimes (if men) they're extremely pushy about physical boundaries. Sometimes there are threats if I don't behave the way they want. Sometimes they talk about their problems as much as possible but never listen to me. I thought I'd made a genuine friend recently, but they confessed that they see other people as akin to hollow dolls who interact with them on a superficial level.
What do I have to do to be worth someone who cares for me as a person and doesn't want to extract something from me? I try to be caring towards the people in my life and not take too much or come across as cold, though it's a struggle sometimes.