I'm suffering a lot due to depression and anxity. I have diagnosed as a bordeliner. I'm from an asian country. I was suffering from suicidal thoughts since I was 13. and i never done any extra curricular activities in school. I was bullied too when I was at school. I always wanted to be a taller when I was a kid and my parents ignored that. they only wanted to take me to a psychologist cz of my horrible behaviour. I everyday threw all the households at home and crush them and yelled until my throat blast. then at 20 I took medication and therapy for depression, then worked for a hotel but had problems with colleagues and had abusive 3 relationships. those people only for taking advantage me and took sexual plesure. on my last working place they fired me. as i told the hr I was suffering from borderline. now I'm back at my home country but now I again feeling due to my short stature I feel I'm so unattractive, and I'm so upset and angry with me for not doing any sports at schooling and I felt I was become short cz I didnt do any sports at school also I hate my parents like hell cz they ignored me and they didnt give me any money for me when I was at school for private sports classes as well as they didnt encourage me. and I'm so upset when my colleagues picking me for my height. now i want to do a leg lengthening or commit suicide even people in every religion say people who commit suicide go to the hell. but I have read about reincarnation book from edgar cayce. and ther are 2 incidents peopel have born again even if they commit suicide. I really want to know from a person who knows buddhism really well what happen to people who commit suicide? will they go to the hell and then they will born again as humans? I took medicine from my country for disease then I stopped it and now I'm feeling a really heaviness my head. a feeling which I can't bare. its inside my head and i want to get away from it killing me. i know medicine or therapy doesnt work for me. cz I am so upset about me and my parents and and I dont want to live my life as a short stature person. and it gives me suicidal thoughts. my psychologists said accept myself. but I never cant do that. sorry for my bad English. I dont need advice. I feel its ok even to become a ghost. :kickingmyself: