Anyone else get offended when people youre not attracted to flirt with you?

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Krista

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chained said:
block him!!! and I hate it when people tell me I'm gorgeous.. even if I were, it's so shallow( even tho I am shallow) . because they no nothing about me.. if they could see my persona, they wouldn;t say gorgeous
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I agree with this. I don't like people telling me that I'm pretty, cute or beautiful because to me I don't think I am. Complimenting myself I feel will make people think I'm vain or shallow and I feel as if someone actually knew my personality the wouldn't think of me this way. They'd be more apt to call me a b*tch actually.
 
Juggalo

Juggalo

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No, I don't. Wouldn't. No chick has ever flirted with me but if one did and I wasn't attracted to it wouldn't bother me it would make me feel good. Because I'm a male and I'm not stuck up and I don't have dates handed to me on a silver platter because of my gender.
 
Juggalo

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Krista said:
I agree with this. I don't like people telling me that I'm pretty, cute or beautiful because to me I don't think I am. Complimenting myself I feel will make people think I'm vain or shallow and I feel as if someone actually knew my personality the wouldn't think of me this way. They'd be more apt to call me a b*tch actually.
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Nothing makes more angry than a woman who can't accept a compliment as genuine and be happy about it. NOTHING. Beauty is in the eye of a beholder, stop getting upset at guys for finding you attractive just because you're unable to see that in yourself. Good god.
 
Juggalo

Juggalo

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Some chicks in this thread are really illustrating why the idea of asking women out and talking to them terrifies me.
 
Lorraine Manca

Lorraine Manca

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you do feel lame when the only guy attracted to you at the party is the guy leaning over the punch bucket drinking vodka out of a turkey baster.
 
evil feline space cadet

evil feline space cadet

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Lorraine Manca said:
you do feel lame when the only guy attracted to you at the party is the guy leaning over the punch bucket drinking vodka out of a turkey baster.
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Ugh thats the only type of guy that's ever remotely interested in me. Or when you're at a party and this guy's giving you loads of attention, and then you cop why.... You're the only girl there!!!
 
Lorraine Manca

Lorraine Manca

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x_No_Oil_Painting_x said:
Ugh thats the only type of guy that's ever remotely interested in me. Or when you're at a party and this guy's giving you loads of attention, and then you cop why.... You're the only girl there!!!
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no kidding! or the fellow who's pupil's are so dilated, he looks like ET.
"you look like a cartoon", you look like a rehab candidate
 
evil feline space cadet

evil feline space cadet

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Juggalo said:
Nothing makes more angry than a woman who can't accept a compliment as genuine and be happy about it. NOTHING. Beauty is in the eye of a beholder, stop getting upset at guys for finding you attractive just because you're unable to see that in yourself. Good god.
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If it someone compliments me online, i get upset, cause I know I'm a lot less pretty in real life and that people have practically spat in my face wiith disappointment after meeting up with me.

However if I receive one from somebody I've seen in person I'm well chuffed!
 
Brokenx

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I don't know but all the people i am attracted too show me no attention at all, but people i don't like come on to me like mad.. =/
 
illuminationSP

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A few months ago, I was massively hit on by a gay man. He was 41, and I was 22. He was offensively forward and graphic with his flirtatious comments about my body/appearance. What he wanted from me was very clear. He then questioned me about my sexual history and orientation. Considering that I'm straight, but not homophobic by any means, I was quite confused about how to react. I laughingly brushed it off and smiled throughout the conversation, but I felt violated deep down inside. I sense that my SA was at fault for not allowing me to defend myself properly; I wanted to ask him to leave, but I wasn't able to.
 
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shore_of_glass

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It happened to me once.... I feel very sad, cruel and as*hole-ish, because I know how it feels to get rejected like that...
 
Felgen

Felgen

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I'm not offended if someone I'm not attracted to flirts with me, but if someone I find physicaly repulsive starts flirting with me then I strongly hint that I'm not interested. I feel like a dick when I do, but it's just human nature.
 
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