socialreject
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When I am work and I see the supervisors in a meeting with the door shut, I think they are discussing me.
Anyone else an obsessive worrier?
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Always. I always manage to find something to put me off everything. I know i shouldn't fear, and that its all "irrational", but i cannot help the way i feel. My feelings just amplify my anxious thoughts.
LadyWench
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Yep. I'm a pro at it. I'm usually obsessing and worrying about my health. I'm a huge hypochondriac, obsessively worrying and being scared that something awful is happening to my body. Then I compulsively check my body for signs of tumors, blood in places it isn't supposed to be, etc. It's SO fun! I sometimes wish I wouldn't wake up in the morning because I know exactly how the day is going to be. I will be running to the bathroom every 5 minutes to make sure my butt isn't bleeding. Or to make sure I'm not going to cough/vomit up blood. Blood seems to be my main concern. I've also been really stressing about appendicitis today. Great times.
I also worry a lot about the well-being of those I care about. I think a lot about what would happen if/when my mom dies. I would be completely lost. I'd probably end up offing myself I were to ever lose her. As crazy as she drives me, I don't think I could go on without her. I'm turning 21 tomorrow, so this is a pretty pathetic thing.
Anyway, yes. I'm a big worrier, and I don't think I'll ever overcome it. I'm definitely a hopeless case.
I also worry a lot about the well-being of those I care about. I think a lot about what would happen if/when my mom dies. I would be completely lost. I'd probably end up offing myself I were to ever lose her. As crazy as she drives me, I don't think I could go on without her. I'm turning 21 tomorrow, so this is a pretty pathetic thing.
Anyway, yes. I'm a big worrier, and I don't think I'll ever overcome it. I'm definitely a hopeless case.
mrb
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iamthenra
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then you my son will be pure taken into gods arms ... untouched by lust
Nope... Just untouched is all... I am like any other guy, except maybe a bit worse because I obsess over the female anatomy maybe a little too much? And of course I have built it up to be bigger than life, females that is....
da_illest101
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same here, my mom is one of the most careful person i ever seen, she gave me her paranoia
dooby-duck
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I worry about anything and everything. If I've got nothing to worry about my brain will make something up. Catastrophising is also a big problem of mine. It's a real pain as I can never relax and I'm always on edge. I can't stop thinking, and over analysing.
Devrium
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mhmm.. I worry a lot too.. mostly about relationship stuff tho. That seems to be the most insecure part of my life... It comes from my BPD I think and those "imagined abandonment issues" that I have... I worry a lot about what people think of me too.. I get delusional that people are just going to randomly start hating me for no reason or that I made them mad etc...
But I also worry about my future and stuff a lot. It causes me a lot of anxiety.... But I wouldn't say that I obsessively worry about every tiny little thing ALL the time. I think it depends on my mood and my day and the circumstances in my life. I am highly sensitive to circumstances. If all is not "right" with the world (at least in my brain) that's when I freak. And I am a really affective individual. If I am freaking, everyone around me can feel it... I think I bring a lot of stress into other people's lives cuz of that =/
But I also worry about my future and stuff a lot. It causes me a lot of anxiety.... But I wouldn't say that I obsessively worry about every tiny little thing ALL the time. I think it depends on my mood and my day and the circumstances in my life. I am highly sensitive to circumstances. If all is not "right" with the world (at least in my brain) that's when I freak. And I am a really affective individual. If I am freaking, everyone around me can feel it... I think I bring a lot of stress into other people's lives cuz of that =/
redski
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Yeah, I do this too and I hate it. I try not to anymore, to analyze.*Sticks hand up* I do! :
...sometimes come up with my own conclusions lol.
Just that it has happened and I should not put any more thought into it.
mossieman
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hi all, i am just the same i worry about the most supid of things. why can't peter crouch ( and other players ) keep his first team place ( and not a spurs fan ) who will make the england squad. why does no-one buy jamilia ( and other pop stars )records anymore. have i got my moneys worth out of all my clothes, what we are doing to this planet you name it i can worry about it and do. i wish i did'nt but i can't seem to stop it always something going around in my head and if it can't find something serious to worry about it will find something non-discript instead.
LadyWench
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Yes. To a fault. I've been an obsessive worrier since I was a small child. I mostly worry about health-related things. Every day I find new illnesses to worry about and fear. I'm constantly looking for symptoms and Googling. It's really taken over my life. I'm just a big hypochondriac, heh.
Aside from health fears, I also tend to worry a lot about other people's motives. I'm almost always wondering and worrying if certain people I love/care about are screwing me over. If they're going to hurt me. Blah blah, emo crap. I hate people. None can be trusted.
