Wanderlust
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Ok so this is somewhat of a long story, but I'll shorten it as best I can. My best friend and I have been inseperable since the day we met 4 years ago. We always hang out on Tuesday, Friday and sometimes Sunday. But lately she has been ditching me last minute for this guy that she just met not even a month ago. Last Friday she told me she couldn't hang out because she was gonna hang out with Kyle (the guy she just met.) Ok sure no problem, so we made plans to hang out on Saturday instead. Saturday rolls around and she wants to stay home because she got too ****ed up the night before and doesn't feel good. She told me shed call me later if she felt better so we could watch a movie or something. Ok that's fine.... come to find out later that night she went back to Kyle's house and never told me. Ok fine so we'll hang out Sunday and do our xmas gift exchange. Gift exchange was supposed to happen at 5 but she put it off til 7 so she could go out to dinner with kyle after she got off work. Ok fine. So I drive all the way over there at 7, we do the exchange for about 20 mins and she's like ok bye gotta go back to kyles now. That one reallyyyy pissed me off but I held my tongue and just went back home. Now this past weekened Friday was our good friends birthday party which was a night of bar hopping which she tried to get out of to go to the club with kyle. She came to the bar hopping party but after about an hour she convinced the bday girl to go to the club where he was at with her, so I came along. When we get there she ditches us two to dance with him all night. Ok fine. Now today (Sunday) I was supposed to go with her to go outfit shopping in hollywood for a rave she's going to with kyle. I always help her shop for her rave outfits and love it! This morning she texts me and says "so kyle wants to go shopping with me so we can coordinate. Would u hate me?" Btw, its an all white clothes party, so the whole coordinating thing is BS. Am I being unreasonable by being angry with her or should I just be a normal happy friend that's excited she's with this new guy?? That isn't her bf might I add. To me it just wreaks of desperation and self centeredness on her part. How would u guys handle this situation?