AM i alone on this?

[oNecoOlazN]

..im really ashamed to say that @ my age i have 0 friends and 0 people relations (minus my F A M I LY LOL). no joke
fuc king sad.
sigh..it's impossible to meet new people anyways, cause what r they gonna think when they find out u have NO friends and had no REAL social life for the past 23 years...
i guess i'll just have to accept it and be a loner/outsider/people phobic for the rest of my life..right?

should i go just kill myself now? :lol: :roll:

 

[Psychedelicious]

No wayy. +1 to that list, serious. Zero Zero Zerrrroooo is all I have have here. I dont' know what ******* is suppose to be? Well I wouldn't even give people to try and find that out, so like I'm saved there. Actually saved from the nothingness of all nothings. argh. I make no sense.

 

[Ashiene]

i read an article in a dating column once in the newspaper and it said girls do not like boyfriends who have no friends and no (social) life.

is it true? maybe psychedelicious can answer the question...

 

[cannotbefound]

pff..who needs those kinds anyway?
i dont have friends only leeches who remember me when they need something.

 

[Moonie]

Ashiene, the reason why girls might not like a guy who doesn't have any friends is because they percieve them as more needy/clingy. If they don't have any friends, then they might have the tendency to smother a girl. Though, I think this would pose more of a problem for a girl that has a social circle of her own. If ther girl is also friendless, then maybe she wouldn't mind this as much?

 

[littl3misstrange]

i have 0 friends too. i've never had an actual friend, i don't think. except when i was little. for some reason, i seemed to have a lot of friends back then, even though i was still very shy. i guess i just wasn't as aware of myself back then, which made it easier to socialize. i wish i still had thta mindset.
i do have one friend though. he's the best friend i've ever had & he means so much to me. the only problem is he lives in australia. i plan on meeting him soon, though.

 

[Videotape]

wow, coincidence. i too have only one best friend. and i can't believe the understanding i have with this person. she's from america, i'm from australia, but she's coming to see me soon which is cool. i don't think i'll find another human being who understands the person i am , and vice-versa as much as with this girl. she's beautiful. i wish more human beings were more like her. love her

Also a girl called aurora. i REALLY REALLY want the rest of the world to see the real aurora. she has SOOOOO much to offer. omg, so funny. she's a crazy cat who will one day fulfil her dreams. she also has wicked eyes i might add.

 

[Psychedelicious]

i read an article in a dating column once in the newspaper and it said girls do not like boyfriends who have no friends and no (social) life.

is it true? maybe psychedelicious can answer the question...

What? Nah. They can spend more time with me then . Crazy cats. Meow.

 

[recluse]

Throughout my life i have had friends come and go. Untill the age of 11 i had a few friends who used to call around and we used to do stuff like make dens and things like that, then when we went to high school they kind of drifted away from me and made new ''cooler'' friends (probably)

At high school i would hang around with my cousin and another boy. Two other boys in my class tried their best to befriend me and invited me around to their houses, and i invited them around once but then it all stopped. When i went to college i was basically friendless, and i was so afraid of everyone. I would dread every weekend because i would be doing nothing alone at home.

Now i have one friend at work who i go to the cinema with. I have a female friend in Poland who i have been to visit twice this year, and i would really love us to be more than friends

I have a really hard time trusting people. I am convinced that when my back is turned they are making fun of me.

 

[Psilopa]

Well, I have only one really good friend - the kind who don't mind at all if you break contact for years without warning and excuses. But I digrees...

For me the key has been hobbies. That's where I found the few people I can relate with. Can't name exactly what hobbies because the combination is probably unique. Pick something that you can practice in private. Once you feel pretty confident, join a club. The discussion topic buffer provided by the common interest is absolutely essential for me.

Solo sports may also be worth looking at. Just pick one which isn't terribly competitive - rare sports are certainly friendlier in this sense than the big-crowd ones. I you plan ever to compete, choose something with a simple metric for ranking (for example a lap time). I could not stand competing in any sport which is judged. The very idea is, well, ... 8O

I have to say that I have never (and would never) started with a hobby just for the social interaction. So this isn't really advise, just a description of my situation.