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    Do you ever feel really bad over the tiniest things

    I'm always like that, even though I know I shouldn't dwell on it. I'm also really paranoid about saying the wrong thing, and offending people. For example today in college we exchanged secret santa presents, it included 3 other friends and myself all girls. One person's half secret santa...
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    Post a pic of your Christmas tree :)

    if you have one. Here's mine xD it's just your average tree :P here's also my own tree in my room ^^
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    Quiz: What is your spirit animal?

    Just came across this quiz and found it quite interesting :D Take it and find out your inner spirit animal! post your results if you like :) http://www.jerismithready.com/quiz/ Here's mine... You are a Swan! (your score: 20) 20 Characters: Tereus, Kalia in the Aspect of Crow trilogy Powers...
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    Why do I feel most self conscious/paranoid talking to my brother?

    Actually, I don't know whether it was just talking to my brother (he's a few years older than me) or whether it was the topic of conversation. In general, he's the type who likes teasing me most of the time, like we'll bicker about silly things eg. what's right/what's wrong, he will always...
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    Do you envy other people?

    I find that this has become a really bad habit of mine. I always wish I was somebody else, someone more confident and carefree. Especially in college I will see certain people that I admire a lot and wish I could have their charisma. When I look at them, it's like they have a strong personality...
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    Good excuse to get out of a social situation?

    I know it's not healthy to keep avoiding things you are afraid of but still I was wondering if anyone could advise me :/ Some of you might already know from a previous thread but I'm going clubbing for the first time with a few friends and a bunch of other people I don't know, it's for a...
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    Draw-a-House personality test

    I came across this test a couple of years ago, the results were pretty spot-on, and decided to try it out again. It's meant to be psychologically accurate though I'm not too sure about this. drawahouse.com - the real estate test Anyways, all you have to do is draw a house (follow the steps) and...
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    First time clubbing...any tips/advice?

    So I've finally gathered up the courage to go to one of these things. OK well mostly because I couldn't really get out of it. It's a friend's birthday and due to my SA, I am scared to death of going around to clubs and pubs, mostly coz I've never been in them and they seem way too sociable for...
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    Do you find that people always wonder what you're thinking?

    I've just recently noticed that for me, people always seem to be wondering what I'm thinking. For example, one friend said to me "one of these days I'd like to know what you're thinking" just while we were shopping. Maybe it's because I'm quiet or something or probably because what I say is...
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    What were your favourite children's books?

    I used to, well, kind of still do, love these: Goodnight Mister Tom - Michelle Magorian King of Shadows - Susan Cooper Knight and Squire - Terry Jones The Voyage - Adele Geras Abhorsen - Garth Nix The Chronicles of Narnia Harry Potter Mhm I was a bookworm even as a child If I think of more...
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    What kind of person do you want to be?

    Just curious to know how other people see themselves now, and what kind of person they'd love to be. What kind of person would you like to be if you were confident? if you had nothing stopping you. Well first of all and the most obvious, I'd want to be someone who could go to any social event...
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    Dreading Party

    I have to go to a party, meaning every social anxiety/phobia sufferer's worst nightmare. I'm not really sure what I'm expecting as an answer to this thread but I thought I might feel better just venting. Sorry this is going to be really long and if u don't read it all I'll understand. It's a...
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    How do you know when you are getting better?

    I was just wondering, how does it feel when you are getting over social anxiety/phobia, depression, whatever? I have been stuck with SP and depression for years but I AM slowly trying to get better. Is there anyone who has actually overcome their problem? and how do you KNOW when it works? I...
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    Snowdrop's journal

    Yes, I am making a journal because it's such a great idea :) First of all, I'm quite new here and I'm glad I found this place. It makes me feel somewhat..safe, to be here and know there are people going through similar situations to me :) I'm going to use this space to tell my story, to myself...
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    Do you find yourself 'acting' in front of other people?

    Just wondering if anyone else pretends to have fun and laugh in front of others when they feel the opposite and anxious inside, and if so, how often? I do it almost all the time :/
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    Hi :)

    My name's Selina...I'm new here :) I've got to say it did take a bit of courage for me to post this. I suffer from SSP so of course I'm gonna be paranoid about posting lol. But I hope to meet people who understand what I'm going through and hopefully make new friends ^-^' A few things about me...
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