People look at you like your weird

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Jesushasomeoneforme

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People are so judgemental at me. They judge book by its cover. People look at me and give off signals if weird there's something wrong with me. I am a very nervous person but a good person. Why are people so harsh and judgemental towards people that are different. This makes dating very difficult. Jesushasomeoneforme. Amen.
 
planemo

planemo

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People have been looking at me like I'm weird for basically my entire life. That's why I prefer to stay at home, and not feel like I'm some sort of freak. I don't really know if I am weird looking or not, or if it's just something I'm looking out for. Maybe those people look at other 'normal' people that way too, the truth is I just don't know for sure, but I always assume the worst.
 
DanFC

DanFC

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I am weird o_O

What bugs me is when the line is crossed between ignorance and disrespect. But I have such a scowl on my face usually things don't get to that point XD
 
lunarla

lunarla

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Not really, really. I don't let myself be fully myself in public, I mostly just try to blend in. So not too much of the weirdness really escapes me when I'm around large groups of people I don't know. But I have gotten some looks from girls that are supposed to make me feel like they think I'm weird and intimidate me or something, lol. I just laugh, really. Maybe that's what's weird? Ooooh, highschool. What a joke.
 
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emboki

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Jesushasomeoneforme said:
People are so judgemental at me. They judge book by its cover. People look at me and give off signals if weird there's something wrong with me. I am a very nervous person but a good person. Why are people so harsh and judgemental towards people that are different. This makes dating very difficult. Jesushasomeoneforme. Amen.
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maybe you might be interpreting all this too negatively...people have a habit of staring and looking at others meaninglessly, and its not just you almost everyone has to go through this.
 
recluse

recluse

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I'm sure people can notice my awkwardness, even when i pretend to be sociable which i have to at work i'm sure people can see through the facade.

I'm really paranoid at how my facial expression looks, like i hate having to fake smile. It's really hard to fake smile, and i feel that i am either overly smiling o'r i look too serious and nervous.
 
SilentRain

SilentRain

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lunarla said:
Not really, really. I don't let myself be fully myself in public, I mostly just try to blend in. So not too much of the weirdness really escapes me when I'm around large groups of people I don't know.
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This is exactly what I do. Sometimes I feel like I can't fully open up because when I do, I get viewed negatively for it and I even tested it to prove it. The few people I know can do ANYTHING weird and people will laugh and joke about it but as soon as I do something considered weird I get attacked. My one friend can go ouside with a chicken on her head and it's a party. I do it and get called stupid thus why I just try to blend in and not do anything to stand out.
 
Tiercel

Tiercel

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I've never really had a problem with people judging me by my appearance. I'm usually able to get away with just being ignored, which doesn't bother me too much. Once they talk to me, however, they realize I'm a bit odd. And that's when they judge me and intentionally avoid me.

I really don't know why....

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