hey sorry for the late reply (...again), have had copious amount of midterms and last minute cramming these past couple of days for an exam :/
when you say moderate, but you have exterme shyness, doesn't shyness stem from anxiety?? because i've been told i'm quiet and shy as hell, and i can safely say that would be because of my anxiety, but you probably have an easier time talking to people if it's not that bad for you. and as for the conservative thing on pakistani girls, it varies really, i've seen girls who are just like westernized ones, but act conservative and sharif when they're w/family, and i've seen entire paki families who are completely westernized, and on the other end of the spectrum, there's the overly religious where the females run for their rooms in terror or madly fix their hijab when the doorbell rings (i personally know a family that does this), it's quite hilarious...so i guess you can say it's a mix, hope it isn't like this for you though