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    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    Well said. This video elaborates on exactly this and I think it nails it
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    Are you a people pleaser?

    Yeah, there is definetely a line to walk there. I'm not blunt in that I will say something hurtful if it's not necessary or my opinion isn't asked for but if asked I will always try to be honest even if it might be uncomfortable.
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    How are you feeling?

    I had the same thing happen to me. Clearly Facebook don't do any proper vetting of who they let advertise on their site. Lesson learned at least. Thankfully I was able to get my money back almost immediately when I filed a fraud claim with my bank. Hope that is the case for you too.
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    Are you a people pleaser?

    Although I definetely relate to feeling less than others in many situations I never considered myself a people pleaser. Mainly because I value honesty and integrity highly so I never felt comfortable pretending to be someone I'm not or saying things I don't mean to please others.
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    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    Such a perfect way to put it.
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    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    I've had the same experience with therapy where it feels like it lacks a sense of direction even though I was clear with my objective from the start. I would just talk about whatever was on my mind that day and it just felt like a place to vent. That can feel nice for the moment but it doesn't...
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    Im gonna die soon.

    I'm sadden to read this, I know how devastating it is to feel trapped. I want to share this video with you:
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    What happened to SPW?

    This site is about one of the biggest problem for people that come here and I guess after a while it can bring you down to focus too much on it. That's the case for me anyway. I need to try and forget what makes me different sometimes and not be too hyper aware of my social anxiety because that...
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    I get so nervous I just can't hide it.

    I've never been good at faking it or pretending to be something I'm not. I'm usually very honest and I can't really lie either because I have no poker face. But this is such a problem when I get anxious and nervous because people can see exactly how I feel and that is one of the most...
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    You know what I think is the hardest thing in life?

    Just being me. Which is quite a paradox. Since that's the only way I can live life. I have to be me in order to live it. Ain't no loopholes there. But that's what makes it so difficult. When you're not comfortable being you, when you don't feel good about yourself, when you're ashamed of...
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    Anybody here who can't work or go to school because of this?

    Sorry if this has been a frequent topic already but I'm rather new here so I don't know and I'm curious.. I have other issues that have prevented me from work but I feel this is becoming a serious issue too. So I have had this work training at a rather large super market with a pretty big...
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    Hate being so dependent on what others think...

    Hey, i'm new here btw. This is just me venting a little. It's like I can never stand up for myself one bit. I just leave it all to others to judge me. Because they are the ones who see me from the outside, I can never do that so I can never know, they are the ones who do. So if someone comments...