just try to remember that your son loves you, and will continue to love you no matter what you say or do or don't say or do - just open your heart and let him in, and all the rest will take care of itself. good luck!!
things are good today - my day off. sun is shining (beautiful in spite of the 10 degree temps). went to the Y and worked out. shopped for groceries. leaving now for the woods to walk the dog (she loves the snow). going to a basketball game tonight.