Hi, this is my first post. I'll get right into it.
I've known A for a couple months and I liked her personality a lot. We're very similar. I think she also has some form of anxiety. I've asked her out a couple times and i told her it's not romantic. She always laughed it off. She left our work place to work at a rival store. Still, I dropped by every now and then and we talked and she seemed to enjoy it. Again I tried asking her out. She laughed and declined. But I never took it personally.
One day I dropped by and ask if she was there. She texts me "stop coming to my work. I don't want to see you or talk to you." My heart sank. I really thought of her as a friend and someone i could relate to. I asked why and she told me that I'm STALKING her (WTF!) She told me I keep dropping by and asking her out and she said she's not interested. She told me to just leave her alone.
She never seems annoyed when i asked her out and out of nowhere BOOM! This. I'm just so hurt. I really thought of her as a friend and i really liked talking to her.
What is wrong with me? I just keep losing friends it's like an endless cycle. It's like nothing I do is ever correct. I make friends then lose them, make friends then lose them. It just never stops. I'm just mentally exhausted.
I've known A for a couple months and I liked her personality a lot. We're very similar. I think she also has some form of anxiety. I've asked her out a couple times and i told her it's not romantic. She always laughed it off. She left our work place to work at a rival store. Still, I dropped by every now and then and we talked and she seemed to enjoy it. Again I tried asking her out. She laughed and declined. But I never took it personally.
One day I dropped by and ask if she was there. She texts me "stop coming to my work. I don't want to see you or talk to you." My heart sank. I really thought of her as a friend and someone i could relate to. I asked why and she told me that I'm STALKING her (WTF!) She told me I keep dropping by and asking her out and she said she's not interested. She told me to just leave her alone.
She never seems annoyed when i asked her out and out of nowhere BOOM! This. I'm just so hurt. I really thought of her as a friend and i really liked talking to her.
What is wrong with me? I just keep losing friends it's like an endless cycle. It's like nothing I do is ever correct. I make friends then lose them, make friends then lose them. It just never stops. I'm just mentally exhausted.