How do you get over your first love when you have sa?

When you know your never gonna find someone else like them. And you feel that they were sent from god just for you. And miracles don't happens twice. And it was your fault you broke up. And it took this long for someone to find you, is it gonna take another 20 years to find someone else. And you should've treated them better . And You have so much regret. And you can't stop thinking about them. And you have no friends. And your all alone again. I could go on forever.

I say you will find someone. Even though it may not feel like it for a while, it's the truth. It just takes time.

But, it might not take forever to meet someone else.

That's the thing about love - it strikes at random, like lightning

I thought my life was over when my wife left me.

I was wrong.

Things are better now than ever!

Loudog said:

When you know your never gonna find someone else like them. And you feel that they were sent from god just for you. And miracles don't happens twice. And it was your fault you broke up. And it took this long for someone to find you, is it gonna take another 20 years to find someone else. And you should've treated them better . And You have so much regret. And you can't stop thinking about them. And you have no friends. And your all alone again. I could go on forever.

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I know EXACTLY how you feel. Apparently there is hope though...maybe.

Loudog said:

When you know your never gonna find someone else like them. And you feel that they were sent from god just for you. And miracles don't happens twice. And it was your fault you broke up. And it took this long for someone to find you, is it gonna take another 20 years to find someone else. And you should've treated them better . And You have so much regret. And you can't stop thinking about them. And you have no friends. And your all alone again. I could go on forever.

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Everything ends... good health, hope, life... but the good news is pain and regret end as well. You will think of her less and less, and then have trouble remember the details, and then have trouble remembering the face, and in the end when you try to picture her in your mind she will just be a warm feeling, and you will feel at ease. Good luck.

Loudog said:

When you know your never gonna find someone else like them. And you feel that they were sent from god just for you. And miracles don't happens twice. And it was your fault you broke up. And it took this long for someone to find you, is it gonna take another 20 years to find someone else. And you should've treated them better . And You have so much regret. And you can't stop thinking about them. And you have no friends. And your all alone again. I could go on forever.

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I guess everyone's first love feels like 'the one'. When I lost my first love (well, he betrayed me), I felt like the world was coming to an end. He was the reason I became anorexic for the next one year.

Feels as though he was my world and when he actually cheated me, turns out he never really loved me and was using me to forget someone else, I was so desperate for him that I told him I didn't mind him in love with that other girl long as I'm with him. I mean seriously, when I look back now.. how silly could I get!

Lots of people said that your first love will be one love you'll never forget for the rest of your life - I have to agree. He wasn't the best, but I wouldn't forget about this like I would for my subsequent relationships.

Perhaps you're blinded right now because you still have strong feelings for her, give it some time and you'll walk out of it. Then again, if you believe she is really the one.. just give it your best and let God do the rest.

If having done your part doesn't change anything, I guess she isn't really 'God-sent' after all..

I used to believe my 2nd boyfriend was 'God-sent' because I just had the thought to accept him when I was praying in church. We still broke up in the end and it was killing me because I thought he was a miracle God gave me and I even hated God for awhile for that.. I still got over it in the end.

So yeah, just pray, do your part, and let God do the rest :]

well you start by taking back everything you said in your post.. you just can't keep thinking negative thoughts like that or you'll never move on or feel any better =/

i don't want to sound preachy, and if you're not religious, you don't have to read this part but you just have to wait it out.. actively wait.. trust that there is someone for you, and when the time is right, it will happen. the sermon at my church a few weeks ago was about this.. it was about being in "God's waiting room".. the main thing i took from it was that 'what God is doing in your life while you wait, is just as important as what you're waiting for' ....sooo take from that what you may.. best wishes to you

You guys are right, I have hope. I just think about her all day long because I don't do nothing all day. I need to pre-occupy my mind. I need focus on myself and learn to love myself before I can love someone else again.

"How do you get over your first love when you have sa?"

What do you mean, first love?








Im so lonely ::

I know, I got really lucky. but I pushed her away, which makes it worse. I would get mad when she didn't have time for me. I got so obessed with her. I got so happy that someone actually liked me. but my self esteem was so low I was constantly questioning her if she really liked me or just using me. Finally she had enough of my whining and accustations and dumped me. So when you guys do find someone, make sure you don't get too obessed with them like I did.