ohheybbyitscorixx
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You know I make up for the lack of knowing what someone's voice sounds like. As I read everyone's responses, I make up an accent, gender, tone of voice, so on. 
I don't like how todays technology is taking away a lot of privacy, with social networks, everyone.e having a camera on their phone etc.
Self-awareness seems to be something that is rapidly disappearing. It seems that satisfying the demands of society has become the sole important thing and the evolution of self is something that has been tossed aside. Most people are not even aware that they have a self. It's rare these days to find someone who's authentic, someone whose soul is pure and untempered with. Everyone likes the same damn things, but they don't even know why they like them.
Either it rules or sucks. What do you think of the music today, the movies, politics, the people, and the technology? Do we live in a generation that looks okay or sucks?
I went through that. I'm not too much keen on that anymore but from the age of 19 to about 24 I was all about alcohol to alleviate my depression and problems. Not so much now, and I'm 25, so it was a quick change. :It's nothing but partying and getting wasted now a days.
This can come from low self-esteem, too. I have bowed down to peer pressure a lot.No moral code that they'd stick to in the face of peer-pressure.
This can come from low self-esteem, too. I have bowed down to peer pressure a lot.
I guess we are different that way. We both don't have a lot of self-esteem but you know when to stand up to peer pressure, where as I've had massive trouble saying no growing up. My therapist wants me to change that and I am trying but it's very hard.There could be alot of reasons, I suppose.
I have no self esteem at all but I never bow down to peer pressure in group situations.
It's easy to make excuses- not hard to think of one or two 'reasons' why you should just do things when you're being told to do them- I'm just saying that I don't know anyone else like myself in this way and I don't understand it because I'm different I suppose.
I find it difficult to find anyone who is closer to being 'straight-edge' like myself.
There are LOTS of people my age who claim they don't drink/smoke/do drugs; then 5 minutes later, light up a joint.
It's troubling also-- that so many teenage girls tend to lose their virginity the same way.
They go to a party; get smashed and wake up naked.
Wonderful. No one has any level of restraint, really.
No moral code that they'd stick to in the face of peer-pressure.
That's what I see in people my age and younger and it really disappoints me.
Also... I feel like I have to say that if people didn't get wasted; they wouldn't 'behave' in any unusual way that gets them in trouble.
This can come from low self-esteem, too. I have bowed down to peer pressure a lot.
There could be alot of reasons, I suppose.
I have no self esteem at all but I never bow down to peer pressure in group situations.
It's easy to make excuses- not hard to think of one or two 'reasons' why you should just do things when you're being told to do them- I'm just saying that I don't know anyone else like myself in this way and I don't understand it because I'm different I suppose.
It's so sad to see how young people (of course including my age, but a lot younger too) behave that way. It's one of the reasons I don't consider myself as part of this society, I'm a freak. Everyone seems to do such things, but I don't like parties, I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't do drugs and I don't even have sex.I guess we are different that way. We both don't have a lot of self-esteem but you know when to stand up to peer pressure, where as I've had massive trouble saying no growing up. My therapist wants me to change that and I am trying but it's very hard.
You're right that you need to be more assertive and steadfast when confronted with peer pressure. If only I could've done that 10 years ago. Another reason why I like you, too.
I will add that "getting wasted" doesn't always lead to sex but girls and boys are aware beforehand that alcohol makes them do silly things, yet they do it anyway. I was aware, too, yet I still kept drinking. And I will continue in the future.