Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

MrJones

MrJones

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TryAgain said:
Talvez apenas normal, normal ao ponto de invisível. Isso, ou simplesmente mau. Qual delas a pior? Lembra-me a dicotomia do nunca ter tido com o tê-lo tido negativamente.

Magoa-me poder ser, simplesmente, mediano. Quero algo mais…mas em muitos aspectos nada posso fazer, e são precisamente esses os aspectos a que se dá maior importância. Podia fingir que não me importo, mas estaria a mentir a mim mesmo. Importo-me, muito, talvez até demasiado.

Resta-me fazer o que posso…
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Maybe I don't understand that much, but with a little help from my friend google translator I think that...

Being demanding with yourself can be good, you're a perfectionist, it can lead to do big things, but you have to be careful.

Having high standards and trying to achieve important goals is good as long as it keeps you motivated to improve, but it can make you feel like you can't do it, like you're not good enough. I've been there, lots of times.

So now maybe you should try to focus and what you can do to improve, to do those things you want to do, and try to fight those "I can't do it" feelings.

I know it's not easy, it's really really hard, but I know you can do it. You can do it! :)
 
BlueDays

BlueDays

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The injustice in this world makes me so frustrated sometimes.
I'd love to know how some people can just live their lives pretending it doesn't happen.
 
planemo

planemo

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MrJones said:
Maybe I don't understand that much, but with a little help from my friend google translator I think that...

Being demanding with yourself can be good, you're a perfectionist, it can lead to do big things, but you have to be careful.

Having high standards and trying to achieve important goals is good as long as it keeps you motivated to improve, but it can make you feel like you can't do it, like you're not good enough. I've been there, lots of times.

So now maybe you should try to focus and what you can do to improve, to do those things you want to do, and try to fight those "I can't do it" feelings.

I know it's not easy, it's really really hard, but I know you can do it. You can do it! :)
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I often think that our will to succeed can be our greatest enemy sometimes. I think we tend to fear failing, because we have a very irrational fear of making mistakes. Us anxious types tend to see situations as either 'you fail or succeed'. If you fail - watch out, but if you succeed you've only succeeded in avoiding failure. I think seeing situations a little differently as opposed to "it's all or nothing" or "either it's perfect or it's not good enough" can help. The thing is most situations have more than one solution. We tend to think there is only one way of succeeding and solving something, and that if we don't do it that way, it's basically wrong. I guess if our anxiety wasn't so prevalent we would see things with a little less narrow mindedness. Whatever it is TryAgain you're trying to overcome it's always easier to see things more clearly minus the constant fear it brings. Best of luck, with whatever it is you're hoping to achieve. :)
 
Beatmetrics

Beatmetrics

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Thinking polygamy just maybe the way to be for me. I'm pretty much motherly,playful and so on... as long as the other women don't hold him in front of my face trying to get me jealous then I'll be like sorry it was nice know'n ya but your women has some jealousy issues. Rolls eyes...jeeeeeezzz
 
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Beatmetrics

Beatmetrics

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BlueDays said:
Dare I ask why you think this?:D




edit: hmmm, you've put the answer up in your post now, but I don't quite understand it. *keeps thinking*
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Well, I am searching for someone who wants an actual future out of a relationship. And most of the men who want families and such already have them...

Just a thought


'excuse me miss where can I find the looser line?....anyone...just raise your hand.
 
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