So ... this is something that has been bothering me for more than a year now.
I had my share of mood swings, and the most 'interesting' thing about it is really that the way how other people treat me depends mostly on my mood, and not on what I say or what I do.
I always go out with my friends on weekends, and that is where I noticed most of this stuff.
When I'm in a really good mood, I often get free drinks from people I barely know or don't even know at all. I even get approached by girls, without doing anything special at all.
One of my friends even told me that I have some kind of 'gift'.
When I'm not in a good mood, a little nervous, or whatever, things are different. No one seems to care much about me. People who don't know me well ignore me or even avoid me. Sometimes I seem to be invisible.
Some people I never met before don't even hesitate to say insulting things. They make stupid remarks about my appearance and so on.
I could go on and tell lots of stories if anyone wants me to, but I think you get the idea.
I don't think that I'm just imagining this ... it's just too obvious.
Has anyone else noticed something like this?
I had my share of mood swings, and the most 'interesting' thing about it is really that the way how other people treat me depends mostly on my mood, and not on what I say or what I do.
I always go out with my friends on weekends, and that is where I noticed most of this stuff.
When I'm in a really good mood, I often get free drinks from people I barely know or don't even know at all. I even get approached by girls, without doing anything special at all.
One of my friends even told me that I have some kind of 'gift'.
When I'm not in a good mood, a little nervous, or whatever, things are different. No one seems to care much about me. People who don't know me well ignore me or even avoid me. Sometimes I seem to be invisible.
Some people I never met before don't even hesitate to say insulting things. They make stupid remarks about my appearance and so on.
I could go on and tell lots of stories if anyone wants me to, but I think you get the idea.
I don't think that I'm just imagining this ... it's just too obvious.
Has anyone else noticed something like this?