I have seen, felt, and heard (internally) to much to get any less than p*ssed when I see what you people have to say about religion. Get over yourselves and look at the big picture (outside of your socially anxious box) and realize that maybe the reason you can't live a normal life with your SP, which seems like I'm the only one who can, and does, is because God wants you to talk to him and not other people, give praying a shot and see how you feel, I know you won't, but I guarantee if you had a microgram of faith your lives would become easier and you may even meet someone and go on a date, maybe even get married, laid, and have a family, I promise there is a God and I don't care what you think about me stating such a promise, if you never find God in this life, he will find you in your next, then you'll really feel like jack asses, and it will be to late. Take this as a warning, make right with God, and he will make right with you, ignore God, and he will ignore you, that's why all of you are so damn miserable, your being ignored! Banvard, yes you are closed-minded, can you see love? No, but it exist, can you see anger? No, but we all feel it, when was the last time you could reach out and touch happiness? Never, but it's there, feeling is proof, because your heart doesn't lie, if you never felt God it is because you have closed your heart off, like your mind, and you probably haven't felt real happiness or joy either, and whether you would like to admit it or not, deep inside at least a little part of you thinks I could be right, which makes me right, and even if you don't, I know I am.
This is so idiotic, I don't even think it deserves a full reply - You can feel love, but can't see it? What a load of codswallop! My SP is due to me not believing in GOD? There are plenty of happy Atheists, it just so happens that I have a few problems. I'm willing to accept new ideas, but yours are lackluster at best, and relies on feelings which you try to give substance to. Love is a word for a complex combination of chemical reactions in the brain. Think I've made my point perfectly clear with the above posts, and on multiple threads. You can reply to me, but you're looking for paradoxes in words, and I can't fight a paradox of words. You're immune from science, nobody can prove what ain't real, which is what you've found. Maybe I should become open-minded?
Now if you'll excuse me, I have a date with a hot beautiful alien woman from another world, I'll pass on the information about the praying stuff, after all, she might be depressed as well. And I don't want her to go to hell, because she hasn't heard the word of God/Jesus. Lucky she found Earth, right? :

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Update: I got ejected from the ship - Apparently she already has a God, it's called the Blob, and resides on a planet in the center of the galaxy - She says we must all join with the Blob, because we will not be happy if we don't.
I ain't a liar, this really did happen. Please believe me, please believe in the Blob, forget your Cod for the moment. He's nothing compared to this new one.
Did you find this cheesy and cringe worthy? Maybe you should look back at your own faith, and understand why people like the world Godless.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWiBt-pqp0E&feature=related
Brain - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia.
The science of love
The 3 stages of love
Helen Fisher of Rutgers University in the States has proposed 3 stages of love – lust, attraction and attachment. Each stage might be driven by different hormones and chemicals.
Stage 1: Lust
This is the first stage of love and is driven by the sex hormones testosterone and oestrogen – in both men and women.
Stage 2: Attraction
This is the amazing time when you are truly love-struck and can think of little else. Scientists think that three main neurotransmitters are involved in this stage; adrenaline, dopamine and serotonin.
Adrenaline
The initial stages of falling for someone activates your stress response, increasing your blood levels of adrenalin and cortisol. This has the charming effect that when you unexpectedly bump into your new love, you start to sweat, your heart races and your mouth goes dry.
Dopamine
Helen Fisher asked newly ‘love struck’ couples to have their brains examined and discovered they have high levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine. This chemical stimulates ‘desire and reward’ by triggering an intense rush of pleasure. It has the same effect on the brain as taking cocaine!
Fisher suggests “couples often show the signs of surging dopamine: increased energy, less need for sleep or food, focused attention and exquisite delight in smallest details of this novel relationship” .
Serotonin
And finally, serotonin. One of love's most important chemicals that may explain why when you’re falling in love, your new lover keeps popping into your thoughts.
Does love change the way you think?
A landmark experiment in Pisa, Italy showed that early love (the attraction phase) really changes the way you think.
Dr Donatella Marazziti, a psychiatrist at the University of Pisa advertised for twenty couples who'd been madly in love for less than six months. She wanted to see if the brain mechanisms that cause you to constantly think about your lover, were related to the brain mechanisms of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.
By analysing blood samples from the lovers, Dr Marazitti discovered that serotonin levels of new lovers were equivalent to the low serotonin levels of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder patients.
Love needs to be blind
Newly smitten lovers often idealise their partner, magnifying their virtues and explaining away their flaws says Ellen Berscheid, a leading researcher on the psychology of love.
New couples also exalt the relationship itself. “It's very common to think they have a relationship that's closer and more special than anyone else's”. Psychologists think we need this rose-tinted view. It makes us want to stay together to enter the next stage of love – attachment.
Stage 3: Attachment
Attachment is the bond that keeps couples together long enough for them to have and raise children. Scientists think there might be two major hormones involved in this feeling of attachment; oxytocin and vasopressin.
Oxytocin - The cuddle hormone
Oxytocin is a powerful hormone released by men and women during orgasm.
It probably deepens the feelings of attachment and makes couples feel much closer to one another after they have had sex. The theory goes that the more sex a couple has, the deeper their bond becomes.
Oxytocin also seems to help cement the strong bond between mum and baby and is released during childbirth. It is also responsible for a mum’s breast automatically releasing milk at the mere sight or sound of her young baby.
Diane Witt, assistant professor of psychology from New York has showed that if you block the natural release of oxytocin in sheep and rats, they reject their own young.
Conversely, injecting oxytocin into female rats who’ve never had sex, caused them to fawn over another female’s young, nuzzling the pups and protecting them as if they were their own.
Vasopressin
Vasopressin is another important hormone in the long-term commitment stage and is released after sex.
Vasopressin (also called anti-diuretic hormone) works with your kidneys to control thirst. Its potential role in long-term relationships was discovered when scientists looked at the prairie vole.
Prairie voles indulge in far more sex than is strictly necessary for the purposes of reproduction. They also – like humans - form fairly stable pair-bonds.
When male prairie voles were given a drug that suppresses the effect of vasopressin, the bond with their partner deteriorated immediately as they lost their devotion and failed to protect their partner from new suitors.