I'm going to tell her I like her, some help guys?

[Sinar_Matahari]

I think it would be better for you to confess and ask her to have lunch with you sometime, but you might seem a little desperate if you ask her to lunch the same day. You might have to calm down from your nervousness and you'll need some time to collect yourself. Do you know if this girl likes you?

 

[Darker Than Black]

Fascinating how easy it is to stop liking someone for being normal. Next time, if you want someone to like you, learn not to appear like a douche-bag waiting to be unleashed. How would you have reacted, had a basically random girl added you to her contact list, sent you a couple of lines, somehow openly deleted you from her contact list, and delivered to you a message through someone else that she liked you? (And how did she realize you deleted her on MSN?)

really, i wouldn't mind, that's pretty normal to me

 

[PennyLane]

Ok I admit I don't have MSN or anything so I'm a little clueless but interactions and finding out if someone likes you needs to be based upon spending real time with them, having conversations. SA makes this hard, but if you want a relationship you have to learn to speak to at least the person you like in real life.

I don't know how old you guys are, but even the fact that your friend was asking her about her feelings makes it a bit difficult. What response is she meant to give???? If she has not spent time with you how will she know what to say?

Adding someone and then deleting them does seem strange if you like them...why did you delete her?

I think you need to just slowly start talking to her...with no pressure!

 

[Darker Than Black]

........................case closed, your judge

 

[Sinar_Matahari]

Hey, here's what I want to say on MSN

hey Cindy

do you have a minute?

I'm sorry about the other day, didn't mean to be creepy. I got kind of

nervous, and did a lot of random stuff.

and something else.

See, I had this crush on you in grade 11 and 12

it's being bugging me for a while ever since I found you and I are at the

same university.


you guys want to give me some hints or changes here and there?

Take the creepy part out because you are basically admitting that you may have behaved in a creepy manner. I don't think that you did anything remotely creepy. Don't bring it up unless she does. It's okay that you admit to being nervous though. And take out the "bugging me" part otherwise you end up sounding like your crush on her has been an inconvenience to you.

 

[PennyLane]

Hey, here's what I want to say on MSN

hey Cindy

do you have a minute?

I'm sorry about the other day, didn't mean to be creepy. I got kind of

nervous, and did a lot of random stuff.

and something else.

See, I had this crush on you in grade 11 and 12

it's being bugging me for a while ever since I found you and I are at the

same university.


you guys want to give me some hints or changes here and there?

I agree with Serafina....definitely don't mention creepy behaviour.

This is just my thoughts, feel free to discard..but..if you genuinely like this girl don't send this.

If you guys have not spent time together or chatted since school, how can she answer? Also why on MSN?

Personally I would send a very short simple message saying hey and stating that you didn't mean to/or your sorry for deleting her from MSN
. Then gradually build up chatting to her without coming on too strong. Do this on MSN if you must but then try and build brief chats into real life around uni

 

[Sinar_Matahari]

I agree with Serafina....definitely don't mention creepy behaviour.

This is just my thoughts, feel free to discard..but..if you genuinely like this girl don't send this.

If you guys have not spent time together or chatted since school, how can she answer? Also why on MSN?

Personally I would send a very short simple message saying hey and stating that you didn't mean to/or your sorry for deleting her from MSN
. Then gradually build up chatting to her without coming on too strong. Do this on MSN if you must but then try and build brief chats into real life around uni

You know, maybe you're right about him not sending this to her at all and take things gradually. Good call!

 

[Darker Than Black]

damned, everyone give me different advices, he says this, she says that. I'm so confused, u say I can't say this, my friend says I should say that...AHHH, its just a crush from high school, i dont know y am i over thinking all of this

 

[Sinar_Matahari]

damned, everyone give me different advices, he says this, she says that. I'm so confused, u say I can't say this, my friend says I should say that...AHHH, its just a crush from high school, i dont know y am i over thinking all of this

I'm sorry. All this advice must be overwhelming. You either get over this girl, do something about it, or do nothing. The choice is up to you. If you do make a move though, try not to have any expectations.

 

[Darker Than Black]

ok, well i didn't tell her..

but she said

more like i have someone i can ask helps for
lol
pretty close friend, he got As in ochem


ya..so pretty much, she's telling me to back off..ya..its ok

If i didn't have my SAD in high school, I would've just asked her..too late now..yup

now I can focus on school...finally

 

[Darker Than Black]

Hey

I told her

on MSN

and she was like "oh, I'm very flattered"

ok, ya.

I don't need a girl to be happy

 

[Why]

Yo at least u told her?? I cant even do that on msn

 

[Darker Than Black]

Yo at least u told her?? I cant even do that on msn

o, i can do it np, its just what to do after that kinda scares me lol, that's when some of my SA kicks in