Do very few people stay single for eternity?

I know the expression about girls being apples and boys picking the rotten apples until they climb a tree and pick the good ones. I think I want to be an apple that can be far out of reach so I won't have to deal with anybody. I don't think I do want a boyfriend(when I'm older). I think I'd rather go to a farm and raise animals, at least animals don't turn their backs on you and call you mean names. I'm done with socializing with people that can't understand my problems and I hate myself even more. Plus if I do have a boyfriend/girlfriend, they probably wouldn't be able to deal with me as far as I can believe. I have to many problems and I think if they even thought about dating me, would possibly be the biggest regrets their going to make. I guess it's a much darker side I let myself reveal. Is there a way I can financially be single forever, what about the sex? Does it matter if I get none. Could I take medication to heal my sex drive or whatever that means. I think the quote There is someone for everyone is somewhat a lie. Not just someone, but there can be many people out for you if you choose carefully.

I love lions said:

I know the expression about girls being apples and boys picking the rotten apples until they climb a tree and pick the good ones. I think I want to be an apple that can be far out of reach so I won't have to deal with anybody. I don't think I do want a boyfriend(when I'm older). I think I'd rather go to a farm and raise animals, at least animals don't turn their backs on you and call you mean names. I'm done with socializing with people that can't understand my problems and I hate myself even more. Plus if I do have a boyfriend/girlfriend, they probably wouldn't be able to deal with me as far as I can believe. I have to many problems and I think if they even thought about dating me, would possibly be the biggest regrets their going to make. I guess it's a much darker side I let myself reveal. Is there a way I can financially be single forever, what about the sex? Does it matter if I get none. Could I take medication to heal my sex drive or whatever that means. I think the quote There is someone for everyone is somewhat a lie. Not just someone, but there can be many people out for you if you choose carefully.

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i get you. I would love to have a girlfriend but i cant deal with the responsibilities involved; goign out on dates, valentines day, birthdays, generally devoting time to her. Relationships to me seem a foreign concept and to many complications and i could not deal with things turning sour down the line an being hurt. Youre right about animals too, they will never hurt you.

I have the same feelings too. Sometimes I dream about living in a hut in a forest with a couple of friends, growing our own garden, and being self sufficient. Kind of like Aurora in Sleepy Beauty or Snow White (before they married their princes) - I like it when they sing and play with animals. I've never dated and don't think I want a bf either. I don't have much of a sex drive, but watching romantic shows or movies can trigger it sometimes - so I just daydream and it goes away.

There is someone for everyone is somewhat a lie. Not just someone, but there can be many people out for you if you choose carefully.

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I agree. Some people choose to stay single for life by choice.

I love lions said:

I know the expression about girls being apples and boys picking the rotten apples until they climb a tree and pick the good ones. I think I want to be an apple that can be far out of reach so I won't have to deal with anybody. I don't think I do want a boyfriend(when I'm older). I think I'd rather go to a farm and raise animals, at least animals don't turn their backs on you and call you mean names. I'm done with socializing with people that can't understand my problems and I hate myself even more. Plus if I do have a boyfriend/girlfriend, they probably wouldn't be able to deal with me as far as I can believe. I have to many problems and I think if they even thought about dating me, would possibly be the biggest regrets their going to make. I guess it's a much darker side I let myself reveal. Is there a way I can financially be single forever, what about the sex? Does it matter if I get none. Could I take medication to heal my sex drive or whatever that means. I think the quote There is someone for everyone is somewhat a lie. Not just someone, but there can be many people out for you if you choose carefully.

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Don't hate yourself. I know how it feels to want to be alone. The old adage, reject them before they reject you. There's someone out there, (actually there are a lot of people) that will love you for you. Some you will end up loving and some you will end up rejecting. Just keep your heart open and work on your self esteem. Don't let cruel people tear you down when there are so many loving people out there. Just look at the people on this forum!!! You're not alone! Someone is out there that will walk with you on your journey!

My self esteem is gone from the people who have hatred towards me, I'm sorry. Maybe I will be lucky enough to change my mind in the future whether I want a spouse but I think I'd rather have ways to have other things and activities to keep me in company. I just learned maybe if I can stay away from others lives and live alone to do much other things that will keep me satisfied, then maybe that way the guys can pick the other girls(excluding me) so they won't have to deal with impatience around me. They won't know how I am until they start dating me and that is the reason why it will lead to even more problems if they continue dating me even if they love me. Nobody has patience for me and I'm so sick of this pain in the *** depression. I think the guys will be better of dating girls who have less problems than me who has a lot of baggage and time to deal with. If any guys chooses to pick me they are going to make the biggest mistake of it and have been warned of what I do in the future. That's why they should never date me,(and I don't care if they compliment my looks, because I'm not any of those things.)

I just discussed this with a person on this site. We spoke of that BS "there is someone for everyone" quote.

Guess what, there is proof that the quote is BS. You know why. Because people die virgins. Because there are thousands of people who die without finding love.

With all the people on this earth, unfortunately there are a select few that don't find a lover....ever.

So yes, it is a small percentage, but there are people do stay single for eternity.

Don't buy into the "there's someone for everyone" crap. That's just a saying to make everyone feel better about a situation that isn't in everyone's benefit.

Problem is, people say that "opposites attract" Is that also true? So let's try to say a short girl will most likely be attracted to tall guys. i know most people believe that, but I don't think opposites attract is always true. They say people who share the same qualities and opinions will butt heads, but one person I have gone along with in the chat room seem that we have so much in common and we never butt heads. I mean, is there someone out there that is almost like you or completley like you? I'd like to know for myself one day. But, I'm telling you right now that guys wouldn't be able to put up with me and I've seen plenty of couples who couldn't take each other's emotional draining, how the way they dress, making accidents, depression, ect. And all four of those I could have, and I don't want my spouse going through that. I'd like somebody completley the same as me, almost like a best friend spouse I'd like to have. Is it possible to be in a celibate relationship where few couples have no sex, intamicy, making out, ect but still cuddle, short kisses, and just act like friends in a relationship? I mean are there couples like that, or is it a rare and uncommon thing.:question: